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[ForTheLoveofBlackCock]

Originally Posted by jimmielee

Before my wife retired she did counseling for recently released parolees in the state of Georgia. She used to tell me when the black men would ask her out. She couldn't go out with them because of professional standards but the thought turned me on. Your husband might be the same way.

I suppose that could definitely work. Maybe a more subtle approach would work better. Till now I could only think of breaking the news to him by just dropping it like a ton of bricks on him, which I won’t lie does sound kinda hot to me hehe

[FuckmyGirlfriend2]

It's clear you don't want your husband anymore. Maybe time to move on.

[ForTheLoveofBlackCock]

Originally Posted by FuckmyGirlfriend2

It's clear you don't want your husband anymore. Maybe time to move on.

Easier said than done though. I guess I’m just anxious about a messy divorce

[ingridguerci94]

It sounds like you're in a complex and challenging situation. It's important to approach this with honesty and sensitivity. Have you considered seeking counseling or therapy to help navigate your feelings and the impact on your marriage?

Open and honest communication with your husband about your feelings and desires is crucial, and professional guidance could also be beneficial. It's important to address these issues in a way that respects the feelings and well-being of everyone involved. If you're looking for advice or support, seeking the help of a professional counselor or therapist could be a good first step.

[curleyblondegal]

Originally Posted by ForTheLoveofBlackCock

Well, sex just became routine for us after several years of marriage eventually, and he is a few years older than me and his interest in sex and/or sex drive have gone down significantly in recent years. He has hardly ever been in the mood and when he is the sex is so stale it honestly got depressing.
At first, the cheating aspect wasn’t a turn on or even something I really thought about when I first started, probably because I was in a bit of denial but either way, it wasn’t a turn on that I was cheating. However, as I had more sex with black men, and with different black men with different kinks, eventually the cheating aspect started to become a bit of a kink for me.
We don’t have any kids, hubby and I tried for kids earlier in our marriage but it turns out he had fertility issues. Honestly it was around then that our sex life started to change too.
I haven’t really thought about how I would feel if he slept with other women or anything like that. I suppose honestly at this point I look at him like too much of a cuckold to be able to see him being able to be with anyone sexy or anything like that.

Sounds like nothing is keeping you in the marriage, why divorce? You can save him some pain, considering you already cheated.

ls their a reason you still want to be with him?