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[irfantasy]

Originally Posted by The D.O.C.

Finally, a honest white guy! You are 100% correct!

That's the thing. A lot of white guys get off on BM/WF porn for the same subconsciously racist reasons but they will never admit it to themselves. Not all white guys of course but most I'm sure. Nowadays the WM/BF fetish is much bigger than it used to be. But let's face it, BM/WF porn is much much more popular than WM/BF porn. And Black people only make up 13% of the population in America so it's not like the black audience is solely responsible for skewing the taste heavily towards BM/WF. And if a heterosexual/bisexual white guy likes BM/WF but not WM/BF, the color contrast explanation doesn't make sense.

Personally I'm kind of disappointed with myself for having this kind of subconscious racist arousal reaction or feeling nervous when I'm in an area with a disproportionate amount of black people. Much of White America has this subconscious racism within them. They just won't admit it to themselves. Instead of being in denial with myself, I have accepted that the subconscious racism is there. But I have done everything in my power to prevent that subconscious racism from being directed towards black men. They like everyone else deserve to be judged as individuals. If I have to jerk off to a fantasy as an outlet for releasing this subconscious racism in a non-harmful way, so be it. Neither would I be harming anybody if I shared the woman of my dreams with black men. I doubt they would complain. lol.

Naturally though I have some reservations of wanting to turn that fantasy into reality. If a 10" cock black guy can satisfy my future wife in ways that I couldn't, I wouldn't feel insecure about that. But then you hear these stories on this forum of guys being cut off sex from their wife, sometimes even completely, after going through the experience. That is a big turn-off. The cuckoldry thing is only a turn on for me because I want to see the mother of my children (whomever that may be in the future) made into a slut in heat (and no offense to black guys but, in my fantasy she has to be with black men to be the sluttiest bitch I want her to be. Because it's not as dirty if I were to see her with white men). I want a perfect madonna-perfect whore combination. A wonderful mother, a wonderful wife who loves her husband and enjoys making love with her husband. But also loves to get pounded by black guys with huge dicks. I want to marry a woman like that. Luckily for many couples on here, this lifestyle has enhanced their marriage and sex lives. That's not always the case though unfortunately.

[irfunseeker]

You raise a good point. Racism is part of it and I also think sexism is too. Maybe that is not a bad thing if the sexualizing of the two takes the sting out of the isms.

This is difficult stuff to discuss because my own thinking about it is not so clear. I know that I like both the porn and the fulfillment of being involved in real time BM/WF sex. The difference between the two for me is that the real time fulfillment is not devoid of feeling - porn is pretty objectified, watch it, bust the nut, then move on seldom spending time reflecting on the phenomenon. The real time encounters always draws up emotions - powerful emotions for all involved. My wife and her lovers we have all had to process these emotions together which is quite a human thing to do. The objectification evaporates in the real time situation and then you have to deal with all the underlying issues of race, sex, sexuality, status, fears, and just being human. I prefer the real time encounters over the porn. But because the real time encounters are so few and far between I will resort to the porn to help me get my rocks off. Plus I hunt for the IR cream pies.

I have been with a lot of women from all races and I found that most women of other races are like most white women I know and that is they were pretty boring when it came to sex - at least for me. I would try to discuss my sexuality with them - they did not want to hear it. Or if they did hear me through they had no fantasies of their own to reciprocate with and would then dump me for being too out there sexually. Hell I have had a couple women flat out call me sick. The very few women who I have been with who have had active sex lives/imaginations also had other issues they were dealing with - husbands, children, or emotional/psychological baggage like borderline personality disorder.

I feel very lucky being with the woman I am with now. My only issue with her is that we do not engage regular sex frequently enough nor the fantasy stuff - but when we do it is great.

[Guinhostrong]

For me the best porn is about women being aroused. As long as the guy is hot and she is clearly just feeling pure suexuality it works for me black or white. So if I see a scene where she's not into it, neither am i

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who wouldve thought white men would like watching interracial sex 20 years ago

[Guinhostrong]

Originally Posted by Guinhostrong

For me the best porn is about women being aroused. As long as the guy is hot and she is clearly just feeling pure suexuality it works for me black or white. So if I see a scene where she's not into it, neither am i

It is about the woman being aroused. I guess I find black guys arousing at some level and the taboo certainly make it easier to imagine it being more exciting

[FillMeUpDaddy721]

People always try to say that the interracial fantasy is rooted in subconscious racism. And sure, there are obvious historical precedents that can't be overlooked. But for me it's what black men are OWED. For hundreds of years beautiful black men were beaten or killed for even looking at white women, and white women used it their advantage to have forbidden fruit but also still be able "blame it on the black guy."
Black people never got reparations. So AT THE VERY LEAST I have to try to make up for all the big black dicks that were never allowed to enter those tight eager pussies. The world doesn't need more white people. The world needs more people of color and racial diversity. My pussy belongs to whatever black man I want to give it to, and my husband will raise my beautiful mixed race children. We don't need anymore entitled white boys, the world doesn't need anymore small white dicks. When I am with a black bull I submit to whatever he wants to do to me, regardless of my desires. I like being used like a slut, but also he DESERVES to use me however he damn well pleases. If he wants to smack my ass til it's beat red and I'm crying and he wants to keep pounding me hard like a fucktoy even tho I have been softly begging for him to "go easy" then that's his fucking perogative. And when I accepted this: those moments quickly turned into moans of ecstasy and animal screaming. I love letting them blow off steam with my body and degrade me verbally and sexually. I am here to give whatever I can to him and any of his friends. All white women need to be breeding with black men, all white men need to accept this fact and try to repay a debt that can never be repaid.

Queen of Spades and proud.