Dirty Dreams
 

This really seems to work! I'm pretty much a wimp and my wife Sherry controls when we have sex. Out of frustration I started a few years ago to feel her up when she was sleeping. I'm pretty good now at knowing her breathing patterns when she is in a receptive sleep stage. I've been able to act out some pretty perverted things with her while she sleeps. The usual set up is for Sherry to be asleep on her side with me spooning her. I will start rythmically humping her to her breathing while repeating a phrase like "You're a dirty girl." or "Where do you want that big ... black ... cock?" The cadence goes along with her breathing. I know things are going well when she begins to vocalize. Sometimes it will be a little snoring sound or a soft moan or grunt. There usually is no penetration. I did manage to get a finger up her ass one time while I repeated the question "More? You want more big ... black ... dick in your ass?" as she responded and I worked my finger further and further up her butt. Did this about 5 minutes before she began to breath heavier and started to awake.

About a year ago I made a list of things I wanted to try getting Sherry turned on to during these sessions. (Here are a few of the dirtier ones.)

Get her to think about getting fucked by another man. (I've used phase for her to visualize being with a big strong black guy.)

Taking black dick in the butt.

Licking a guys balls and getting aroused by the smell of a guys crotch. And getting turned on thinking about tonguing a black guys ass.(I know this is a bit perverted but I would run my finger between my butt cheeks and hold it under her nose as I used this scenario.)

Introduce a trigger that will work when she is awake.

By the way in the years that I've been doing this Sherry has never mentioned anything about it in the morning which is pretty amazing since some times I'm sure she's caught me and there will be hell to pay in the morning. At the most in the morning she would tell me she had a dirty dream last night.

The results of all this conditioning has been pretty amazing too. Sherry hasn't fucked another guy yet but I've caught her eyeing a couple of black guys that have walked past. She still won't do anal with me. The best I've been able to manage is for her to bend over and present herself for me to take doggy. She has consistently responded to a trigger phase and believe it or not here is a nasty thing I've been able to get this once fem dominant woman living with a limp-dicked husband to do.


She gets turned on when I talk dirty to her during sex.

Sherry consistently lets me mount her face like a slut and hump her mouth. And this has led to something that I thought she would never do. Last night I said the trigger while I was mounting her face. I slid up a bit for her to lick my balls and like many times before lowered myself to see how she would respond. Sherry quite un-expectantly buried her face between my ass cheeks and tongued me! Damn!

Getting Sherry to fuck another guy, even though I think it is on her mind, still hasn't happened yet. Any suggestions on how to continue the conditioning or to capitalize on it?

Good to read this story! For how many years are you doing the whispers and how many times a week/ month/ night and for how long (10 minutes, 30 minutes, 1 hours etc.)

And at wat stage of her sleep do you start? Did I read right at the beginning?

All of the above. I've had sessions that last from 5 minutes to off and on through out the night almost an hour and a half. I found that you really have to be patient and persistent. I usually start when I hear her breath in a way that I know she is sleeping. This take time to learn.

I do want to make a couple things clear. Since Sherry has in the past been the one in charge of our sex life I think I do this so I feel at some time I'm in control. But believe it or not I am the submissive and just want to instill in Sherry a well established secret fantasy that she feels she is in control of. When we have sex and she does one of the dirty things that I have on my list. I never mention what a nasty thing she's done. I will just pretend it's normal love making and kiss her to let her know that I still respect her.

Even after Sherry buried her tongue up my ass I didn't degrade her or even acknowledge what she did. My little limpy did get extra stiff though and I just kissed her and fucked her as usual.

Another thing that may be helping this work is the fact that I do have trouble getting it up some times and Sherry may be willing to try things to arose me. Also I think I have trouble getting it up ironically because I don't feel in control. Doing these little sleep sessions at night has also helped there.

But I am a submissive at heart, if a black guy wanted to take control of what goes on during these whisper sessions, I'd let him do it. I'd obey his instructions.

Many thanks. In my circumstances it is realy difficult. Let me explain.

We both work fulltime (in my country is that approx 40 hours a week). Next to that I work 15 hours a week for a national association. When I go to bed I'm very tired. For me it is quite difficult to wait till she's in sleep and then start to LW.

That is also the reason why I failed every time I start again with LW. When I have a period that I'm able to LW, I see quite fast progress. She likes to have sex with her BBC dildo etc.

Probably I have to train myself more in sleeping later.

I get my wife to dream, but...
 

Even after I get her to dream and moan, the next day she claims she dreams about work, etc, non-sexual things.
She says she doesn't remember most of her dreams, but I suspect that she does.

I see that this thread has been inactive for many months. Let's hear from others as to what has been happening, etc.

It is realy hard for me to keep on LW. I am convinced it works. I don't know if you ever read the document that "Hep" posted here.

Reinforcement
 

When I wanted my ex wife to cum I told her how much I wanted her to fuck my friend when I shot my load in her. When I ate my load out of her she came like crazy and said that was the hottest thing a guy had ever done to her. Wish I had seen her seeded by a big mandingo dick.

Why the hell are you posting this b*llsh*t in this topic. Get a life! :mad:

Still fantasizing
 

Guess all I will ever get is to the fantasizing stage. I love this site and love talking to others about my wife; however I don't think it will happen in real life. Hope you guys don't mind me monitoring this site and keeping my hopes up.

I had surgery so I cannot get an erection any more. (embarrassing but true) She hasn't had a dick in a long time so how could she not want one? Even though we are older she still enjoys a toy in her sometimes....I just think if I would have started this thinking when we were younger I would have a fun time watching her and she would be pleasured by a black dick.

If I am not welcome let me know and I will quit posting here.

George

Man I think everyone's welcome as long as your not pretending to be something your not. Most people don't mind us lurkers so much as they do the men posing as women so they can jack off to the thought of fooling some of the people on here