Building off a small number of triggers.
 

I think its important to follow the rule of keeping it simple and by this I mean don't try too many at the same time - but over time use the trigger to build more onto what started as something else - for instance the trigger originally used for just getting her to use a dildo once having become a habit / routine can then be reused for advancing other areas of opening her up to that IR / bi / slut or whatever other experience is wanted. Because as one thing becomes a habit having her familiar with that word to do with advancing her IR / bi / slut experience is going to be easier to attach to the new stuff.

If you have too many triggers for too many different things - its going to get confusing for you and possibly her own sub / unconscious.

As in everything there is exceptions to every rule and by this you may want a trigger to encompass a particular place like a particular bar where black people are known to hang out or a particular person is hanging out and then using that as the trigger word itself to get her to go there by associating that name with the enjoyable suggestions you have been whispering at night about her "when I say the name ........... you are so curious to visit there wanting to visit there, needing to visit there. and suddenly you will feel compelled to go there and hang out enjoying the company of the ........... there"

I ask you to notice my chunking up and building on suggestion from the "wanting" to the "compelled" - this is just an example and so you can remember to change and words to suit YOU.

This can be applied all the way along any LW session.

Remember every session will benefit greatly from starting with just a simple "I love you very much" - this creates two things of importance allowing the unconscious to relax and 'testing the water' to make sure she is deep enough to not waking.

This can then be followed with "You are going deeper and deeper into sleep just listening to the sound of my voice taking you deeper and deeper just listening to the sound of my voice taking you deeper and deeper down...... all the way down just listening to my voice and obeying just listening to my voice and obeying everything I say taking you deeper and deeper down ....all the way down listening and obeying my voice. Your going all the way down listening and obeying me and reaching deep into your core values and beliefs and opening the box of that natural slut the slut that's always been there waiting to be allowed out to play. Now listen and obey my voice as I tell you to......................"

Again this is a working example BUT change anything to suit YOU.

Guys,

I get back from work and she tells me that she used the extra lg dildo. Remember, thats the one she hated. I asker what she did with it? She said she was so excited she could not last more than a minute?

Help me understand that one. She would not use it and now so excited, she cannot last more than a minute.

Something to this...............

Congratulations Jacko1, it would seem your girl is taking the nudge and progressing towards your goal for her. If she went from hating it to using it on her own then you can't argue with that as progress.

One thing I have found that I believe has to help her want more than she is getting is doing your best to refrain from having sex with her. I know this is difficult but not impossible. As she begins progressing towards the desire for more and better sex without actually getting sex at all then that itch grows bigger. We all know what happens when an itch grows without a scratch for it. The desire for that scratch grows bigger than the itch and that means more progress.

Some may disagree with this but I like to stick with what works and this has proven to be effective for me.

Update on Julies part time work situation that I have been spending some LW time on. I posted earlier about having a discussion with the two black gals that she works with part time. Her boss just got a contract to set up a system for a company in another state and he is taking six people with him for a week to go up and do this setup.

Lisa and Whitney, the two black gals are staying here to keep the wheels rolling on the work here and they have told Julie that they need her to plan on working all weekend. The boss told them that he will be paying double overtime for this week. With them being full time they already make more than Julie does as part time so she will be working at her regular pay while Lisa and Whitney will be making nearly three times more than Julie. I figure they will make Julie do three times more work than they will too and who knows what else she will have to do for them.(wink).

I have until Saturday to work more LW on Julie to not only do what she is told but to also want to do it for them. To be their weekend slave and do whatever pleases them. To wonder what they have between their legs and the desire to find out. I would never have tried this without the little meeting I had with the two and without being comfortable with the outcome of that little meeting with them.

I will update again ASAP.

Not a "whisperer" per say but I think these methods would have worked. I had an extremely conservative wife but one I love deeply. One day I simply admitted to her that the thought of her being "taken" by well endowed black men was my biggest fantasy. At first she was shocked and repulsed but watching porn and using a black dildo on her got her in the mood. Now several years later she uses a chastity cage to torment and frustrate my penis and has 3 regular black lovers who satisfy her sexually....and we've never been closer or happier together. it was very liberating being able to tell her the truth, and now that she has embracedsex with black men we have no reason to ever hide secrets again.

Thanks for the positive comments. I have been trying to whisper the last few nights but her breathing is light and she is by no means in a heavy rhythm.

I am going to take your advice and hold off and just whisper for the next few weeks. Should be interesting. Maybe I will leave her the big fat dildo and see if she begins to use it.

No sex will be tough but its not as if I get it regularly anyway.

Keep you posted.

LWs working for me
 

Well I've turned a conservative wife into a woman that now enjoys black dildo with IR fantasy play using LW and am still getting more and more out of her. I personally use it on her whilst I get her to explore the black men on white women fantasy and some allusions to other women with her. This whole mustnt have sex with her is something I dont use though encouraging her in LW to use the dildo and then for her to do this is better than me using my white dick. Interestingly though to use the black dildo and then get the chance to put my white dick in and then almost instantly blow my load just draws attention to the size difference anyway.
Something odds definitely happening and I think admitting this LW stuff is the cause is a forgone conclusion but be nice to read in posts rather than taking it for granted.
Its good to hear of all your successes because it spurs me on too and just so alls clear to you all I think we owe Hep a very big debt of thanks and we arent going to take that for granted.
I know im scratching the surface of this LW subconscious stimulation and have been reading up heavily on the hypnosis trance inductions since being pointed in the right direction by Hep.
I used to be a member on cuckoldsforum where this guy who runs it offers a ebook ultimate cuckold manual which was $30.00 or something doesnt include this LW.
So heres this LW method given away free and the fucking thing works! Hey I dont want Hep to start charging but like tnblackstallion says this kind of thing people would pay for!

Keep at it raleigh
 

Keep at it man believe its worth it if you do!

Well I've been trying the whispering for about a week now & I think its working. Last night, I kept repeating "You love black cock!/You want black cock fucking your pussy hard" & twice she said in her sleep, (To my suprise) Uh-huh! This morning she was very loving & turned on as I kept telling her how much I loved her & reinforcing that fact. Have not tried to give her a keyword yet, (taking it slow) figured I would try this first & see where it goes. What do you guys think so far?:eek:

Mikewhitey, It sounds like you are making progress and that is fantastic. I mentioned about trying to refrain from having sex with your girl and that still holds true but not so much that you risk having her go the other direction on you. Maybe I should have said to cut down the amount of times you have sex with her. But I believe it is a very good thing when you do have sex with her that you blow a load as quick as possible. This tends to leave them somewhat still in need of satisfaction. With that need burning inside her coupled with the opportunities beginning to float around for a chance at having the greatest sexual experience of her life could very well give her the nudge she needs to go for it.

A white female that loves to fuck and they all do, with an itch inside her that still needs some more scratching, that gets the answer to her sexual frustrations waved in front of her face will at least think about what it can do for her needs and might very well light her fuse of curiosity to the point that causes her to further exploration into this new chance for ecstasy.

Durfer, that sounds like progress also. Any type of encouraging and agreeable attitude or response that you get from her is a plus as opposed to getting shot right out of the sky by her. Take it slow, add a little as you see fit and enjoy the ride to your ultimate destination for her.

My girl has got to work all weekend so that should prove to be rather interesting considering the recent developments that have surfaced with her part time job. I will let you know more on that when I do.

Durfer this I think is excellent. Your testing this before going deeper into the Loving whispers methods with triggers embedding for conscious use.
Can I ask you a question out of curiosity does your good lady have any habit of 'zoning' out easily.

I'd answer you guys in full and will when I get the chance because each and everyone of you are getting it and it's good to see it. I'm really tied up with working commitments and also spreading the LW further and wider and am about to bust it open on some of the largest online communities which probably offers great opportunities but also the greatest dangers with getting the negative flamers moving in and burning the idea as quickly as they can.

Just one other thing if you guys can spread the word to link to this thread to the other wannabes you meet around the net you'll be helping more guys getting their gals slut orientated and that can't be a bad thing can it.