
11-02-2011, 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted by SquirtKing
@Mike
I understood in the pdf that you need to use the triggerword on a day after a while to see what happens. If you used that word and you noticed her sub concious mind is triggered, you can talk dirty things. Did I understand correct?
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That trigger word it seems doesn't even have to be a word, if you think about it, the very use of getting the wife to react to seeing black men on TV or in the flesh is a very powerful thing.
I think that as you use a trigger word you allow her to keep building her own concious realization of what she is beginning thinking and responding to those thoughts on her own terms, without you necessarily beginning dirty talk at the very start. I think a gradual easing in period is best but then building to the point that you start noticing a particular aroused state and jokingly pointing out something in the IR diaspora.
So yeah I'd ease in real slow and subtle without necessarily driving her towards dirty talk straight off but get her to self realize what it is her unconcious is driving her towards.
I did have a conversation with Hep where he suggested the use of buildingfurther triggers and one was aimed towards a particular night spot for me and the wife to go dancing and 'run into' black men, Which I successfully achieved! But that was like months into the training. I kept dropping it in and invited her to particularly notice this club and give her the overwhelming feeling of fun and eroticism going there and wanting to dance with a black guy. Mind you I drove her past the bloody place about 6 times on different ocasions.
Nothing obssessive there I guess...
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