I think it all depends on the girl really. Ive had all different sizes but Id be lying if I didnt say Im a bit of a size queen. I like them big

Taboo the submission to his powerful sexuality
 

To me its about being taken to a higher level with a black man . Knowing that I am his total slut that can use me any way he wants ! The fact of knowing only a Real Black Man can give me Mutable Orgasms . I am a happily married woman who loves her husband and has a good sex life with him . But I am obsessed with Black men and always will be . It took my husband a while to get used to sharing his wife . Something that only a Real Black Man can do to me the Taboo the submission to his powerful sexuality . I have to admit it raised some eyebrows but I will sacrifice to have two lives and its worth it !

My wife's experience
 

I don't know the other girls in this site opinion but in the case of my wife she hadn't been interested only in the dick sieze.
She had had a black boyfriend before me and she told me his dick was normal (perhaps no more than four and half inches) but he was able to make her cum quickly, already one minute or less. She told me this after one of our first times having sex because she had been having some difficults to get her orgasm with me.

They used to make the love in doggy style and missionary. When they made it in doggy, my wife turned so hot, and the view of Susan's butt knocking his pelvis, gave him a quickly orgasm too.

In missionary was more intense than we could imagine!
He was a little petite and thin, so my wife felt this position good and confortable. When he was lying over her, his head stayed near her breast which were licked by him at the same time he was fucking her, My wife turned crazy of pleasure and she used lock her legs wrapping them around his body, allowing her ex boyfriend obtain a deeper penetration. It was so stimulating for them and they cummed soon. In general she obtained he orgasm first although sometimes they got them togethers,

Only in one occasion he couldn't wait for her and he cummed first (it was when they started their relation ship and they were knowing each others) but she gave him a great blowjob and he turned hard like a rock again. They fucked hard and she cummed in less than one minute for her first time.

Several times she told me how excited he could make her feel and the short time that she needed to cum when he made her the love.

I think he was so virile and potent and he was a first class male don't needing a gigant size penis to get her an orgasm.

Is it all about size? Some people have no choice! Women if your with a guy that's below par, I guess it's tough luck! Especially if your after more inches! And the same case vise versa!

All men want a big cock! It's bullshit if they say they don't! However they don't get much say in the matter! Now as a rule most women don't get a choice either, but with Internet & other ways of meeting up, women can basically design there own date, tall, small fat, thin, ugly, long hair, short hair, muscular! And even cock length!! Now if were being honest I don't think too many women are Gunna be looking for a dude with a baby cock!!

As a rule everyone wants the best! In life, in everything! Big tv, big house, big car, big job, big money........ Big expectations! And women & men both want the big cock! FACT!!

Personally I was born lucky or maybe god smiled at me and blessed me to be really well hung! And from my experiences in life size matters! Just cause I'm well hung doesn't mean I have to slide it all in but if your lacking in length you may never hit the parts she wants you to!

So the moral of the story is! It's better to have it & not need it! Than need it & not have it!

If You really do have a big dick then I'm betting You get laid a lot by friends of women You've already fucked coming on to You and being very upfront that they want to fuck. True? We women talk to each other about the Men we fuck, and I've seen many other women go after a well-hung Black Man like sharks after blood once someone says He's well-equipped. Truth is, any woman who says "size doesn't matter" is either trying to not hurt the feelings of someone they are currently fucking OR they have just never had a really BIG one before. Obviously, size isn't ALL that matters, and there are smaller-cocked Men out there who fuck like crazy. BUT...all other things being equal...Bigger IS Better. No debate on that.

I think the appearance of a black cock looks like its goin to be one hell of a night ,to the pale white cock looking sorry for its self ,(please miss may i have some more) hahaha

Size is the factor, but you can ask any woman...
 

that's here in this forum , size ain't shit without delivery!

Here's the thing ..experience is the best teacher.

Meaning: Ladies who have had it & enjoyed it talk about it, if it sucked then why would you have anything to say?

So if the dick was huge & he didn't know how to use it then it wouldn't be worth talking about.
Case in point..a little off & on subject from the male perspective.

Pussy is generally good, Hell guys will take bad pussy on a good day, but what if a guy ran into a girl who could fuck like Vanessa Del Rio? ( And if you don't know who that is then you really have a lot to learn about Fuckin')

Meaning, she wasn't the sexiest of all porn stars but one thing she had that a lot of the gorgeous porn stars didn't have... was a pussy that could DELIVER!

So to answer your question : Yeah.. it's about size to a degree but we seem to be blessed with that & the spirit of "Vanessa Del Rio" It's hard on the competition ;)

Bless your heart & may God keep you close to his bosom !
The world needs more like ya ;)

Bigger is better ...
 

There are some men who are blessed more so then others in all races, not only in the Black race ... When I first met my current wife she froze the first time she put her hand in my lap and asked "what the hell is that" ... I told her that I was a little larger than normal or average and she said that was an understatement if there ever was one ... She did express doubt that she would be able to take anything that large but that she was willing to work on it and give it a try ... She actually got frustrated because when she was sucking on me she could only take a few inches but she did good and always got me off ... We tried everything, lubes, positions etc. and took our time and eventually I got her to relax enough where I could get more than a couple of inches inside of her tight little love hole ... She kept telling me to take my time and when to push a little harder so as not to hurt her or rip her ... We never gave up but she in an exceptional person who didn't give up after the first time , which is a big part of why she and I are together ...

The fact that some men are Blessed in some peoples eyes is not always true for the one who is supposedly blessed in that department ... There were many ladies I would of loved to make love to or just have a wild night in bed with but it never happened because they backed out due to my being blessed ... There are times its not all its cracked up to be and some Ladies are size Queens, so they say until its time to put up ... If I could have my way I would of been closer to average but thing have a way of working themself out ... We have had IR get togethers and most guys think they are bigger than they are usually, we hear "no brag, just fact" a lot but little do they know she likes to taken by some smaller guys once in awhile but always comes back to Papa for a really good time ... We have been together for over 20 years and she never complains about not having enough of a good thing ...

size matters
 

well if hes a black man n not big thn whts the use?

Good point ... But not everyone thinks that way ...

size?
 

my wife wants a big cock. black or white. and a 10 inch cock feels the same inside your pussy no matter if its black, red, white, yellow

Its more than just size, I have had guys who were hung, but had no clue how to use it and it wasn't very enjoyable (PS its more than just thrusting in and out), and had average guys that were amazing despite being average size. When you get a huge one with a guy who knows how to use it, then that is heaven.

I fucked a guy i picked up at a social party friday night who was hung (8in long, 6.5 wide, not my biggest but still good) who knew how to use it, and god it was amazing. I made him stay all saturday for fucking me. A whole day of orgasms. And the great thing is, you studs recover quickly so it was non-stop (Yes he was black, 25, just finished law school last fall, now working. Smart and a great fuck)

But it is more than just size, though size always helps

Right! All of us want to have a realy Big Cock to play with! ALL of US! Including Men! Big Cock are for woreshiping!

cock size
 

Yes its about the size its about what a white woman desires just like i desire the white woman i want to be thick and hungry for a black man it all feeds the lust i like the taboo the skin contrast its a very powerful attraction that will never go away

guy can't fuck
 

If a guy can't fuck then a woman should get on top. Use the cock for what it is. :D

It's Not Just Size (or Darkness)
 

It's the whole taboo factor in American society. "Nice white girls don't date black guys." The first night Al and I had sex, I really didn't consider the "race factor" until after the second time he'd cum in me. And, while Al is "large", so is Rick. But, neither is the largest or the smallest I've had. And, Al is neither the darkest or lightest black man who's had me. It's not just having sex with a black man that is a turn-on. I can be fully clothed in public with a black man and get excited. Even if we're not going to bed.

For me, it's the taboo all the way. If he leaves his seed in me, so much the better!

-Angie

I think this site explains itself
 

I can only speak for myself here. But love may have no boundaries, cock size or degree of a man. This site is mostly married women who are already in love, and are looking for excitement beyond the average. That is the point of this site. If you want something more than average and your husband is ok with it. Size does matter, and ugly or fat. I want to be filled and I'm not looking beyond that cause I already have love. Now its time for fantasy!!! Sorry your not hung, there are women that don't like big Cocks. But this girl wants it to get all the way in!! Another site, like e-harmony or something would be a place to start with a 4 inch penis. Cause i think its odious what we women want here. Huge hung BBC's!! Yes ladies??

I do not think that it is taboo anymore.

Personally, I just enjoy giving pleasure to men. I've had men ask me what I want and my answer has always been that I just want to make him feel good. While I enjoy a long thick dick, I'm quite pleased to give pleasure to those that are less endowed too. I'm really not a size queen. Whether it swings long or short, I'll make sure he is satisfied. If he's satisfied then so am I.

Size does matter
 

I can only speak for myself but I personally do prefer a larger size dick. Everyone has their own preferences and I have white girlfriends who do not like black guys and would never consider cheating on their husbands. But not every girl likes sex as much as I do either. I am very sexually oriented.

That said, there are lots of reasons why many white girls end up sleeping with black guys. Some out of taboo, some out of curiosity, some out of a complete lack of seeing color or race, some out of a lack in inhibition from using drugs or alcohol and some out of just being skanky whores. Myself, I was very young and lost my cherry to my black girlfriends older brother. It was my first sexual experience and he happened to have a decent sized beautiful black dick. That experience definitely changed my life.

The primary reason I like big dicks is because I have had some big dicks and I know how much more awesome they feel inside my pussy than a small dick. I did not join this site to find a husband. I already have a husband. I joined this site to get fucked by black guys. If I were looking for a husband, I would totally consider all of the character traits you described and if they had at least an average sized dick then I would be happy but that is not the real purpose for women like me on this site. If all I want is lots of dick, then I want great dick. Does that make any sense to you at all?

On another note, why would any woman who actually wants to ever get off in her lifetime marry a black or white or Asian or East European, Muslim, Christian, Buddhist or other guy with a two inch dick? I could totally love everything about you and not marry you because your 2 inch dick would make me hate you over time. If that makes me shallow then I am shallow. What I think it really makes me is realistic. Its the same thing as marrying at 18 when you are broke, just because you are in love. Broke people have no business getting married and women have no business marrying guys with 2 inch dicks unless they themselves hate sex and don't care if they ever have an orgasm.

Just my opinion.

I think your open honest frank summary is very refreshing, good for you whiteangelgirl you are comfortable in your own skin & know what you want. nothing at all wrong with that. JUST MY 2 cents as well

Yes yes its all about sexing her mind also and making sure she feels comfortable in the enviroment and no rush rush business, i have met many women who say they have never really been sexually satisfied, the man cums and then the sleep hormones kicks in and he dont wanna talk to her and then fall asleep. I have such wonderful sex with my gf...there is pure love in it also and we communicate very well, Communication is very important!

sex with true love in it is just Amazing. As i get older i learn a lot of things in the bedroom and thats never to be selfish with your partner, Always make sure she is fully satisfied and she'll come running back to you. I have done things in the bedroom to my gf no man has done to her Before.

Yeah them cock enlargement scientists or whatever you call them are working day and night as i type right now on how to perfect cock enlargement and trust me they will eventually succeed and once they have perfected it the phrase 'size dont matter' will come to a end and yes blackmen will start to feel real threatend by the whiteman cos he got Money and can go get a dick enlargement and whitewomen will run back to him.

Exactly!! Well I'm totally not a size queen. Honestly anything over 9 and I'm stepping back from it. Sorry.It Just wont work. I'm not into freak sizes. Most times they don't know how to use it. They've lived their life bragging about their size instead of learning how to use it. Like just bc it's a freak size it's magical or something. :rolleyes:

Sorry. Not really into freak show dick sizes.

Give me thick rather than long
 

When we first start in the lifestyle, I went to a fabric store and purchased a retractable clothe tape measure so I could keep a record of all my conquests. At the time, I was hooked on size both length and girth. My first experience with anyone other than my hubby was with a Nebraska farmboy at a swingers club. He was white and had a 13 1/8 inch long cock and it was 8 1/4 inches around. I loved the stretched full feeling that his girth provided but his length made sex every unpleasant. It felt as though I was getting punched in the stomach with each of his thrust. I have tried a few other long bbc s since but the farmer's was the longest I ever saw or had. All of my experiences have helped me to developed a rule of thumb that I now live by. I will not fuck anyone over 10 1/2 inches. Longer cocks only get a blow job. On the other hand, I love to fuck any cock regardless of length that is 7 1/2 inches or more in girth. Give me that full cunt feeling and I am in heaven.

Lisa

For me, i just find the color contrast a real turn on. Looking up at, or down at (depending if I am on top or on bottom) someone much darker skinned against my pale skin is an extra layer of turn on.
I don't mind Black guys who are average, because when I have sex with a black guy it's about the eroticism of the contrast.
For other women it's the fetish of having what was taboo to them growing up.

Ditto to all of the above....Becky....:)

I am through pretending. I pretended for twenty years with my husband. And I believed it. Fifteen seconds on my first big (black) cock I knew it was all bullshit. I admitted it to husband during the car ride on the way home. Told him it was "fucking great" and I was gonna be needing more of that. He smiled and said "big surprise". First time he was ever right about anything lol. I LOVE BIG, BLACK COCK. It feels better. I cum more. The more I get the more I want. I can't stop cumming on them. I crave them. Never felt that way once about a regular (white) cock. Not once.

to me it's not all about size. i love the contrast between my white skin and his black skin. :D

I never really knew size made a difference until I got involved with a man that was large and he was black-so I just assumed they were all his size and it seems to be true

I agree with susu56 this site is mainly for black men with big cocks. Throughputs this whole site big cocks is what all the conversations are about. I have 9" and I 've been on this site for years and the main reason is to watch woman getting big fat black cock so if your in the MD area around Baltimore or Washington than come by and get your sexual needs met.

not making any general statements..... whatever floats your boat....
 

but for me.. frankly, I enjoy do size more now, a lot more now..... and I have found that Black men are more assertive and aggressive, and that is something I enjoy... just my thing..... and hubby enjoys seeing larger men as well.


Charm, appearance , all that stuff matters sure, but you have to remember... I'm not looking for a mate. I have a loving husband who is almost everything to me. I'm looking for sex..... being charming isnt important, his career isnt important. I hope his career makes him happy... but at the end of the day, I'm looking for a man who wants sex with me and understands I'm happily married and my husband comes first in my life, except sexually.

yes, size. No, not fickle
 

This is not a site for looking for a mate. We have lives... this is for finding sex partners. Obviously other things matter besides just dick size when looking for a relationship... but many are not looking for a loving relationship on here. We are looking for masculine men with powerful endowments. And I dont give a rats ass if something thinks thats fickle or shallow ... its our life. We get to choose what we want :)

I think that size does matter in the sense of what most people are looking for on here. My wife would care about other things if it was about a relationship but for us it was more the 'not knowing' and suspense of a huge cock. My wife for example never once told me she would like a huge cock but from our first meet I could tell that was all it was about..not much mentioned about jobs/personality etc at the meet, they foreplayed, fucked and that was it..only things mentioned was the size and the pleasure which was obviously her purpose! Remember though the realisation of seeing your wife ploughed by a bbc is very different from fantasy, if the bull knows what he's doin be prepared for jealousy but try accept it! Talk to your wife a lot before and after!!

I really cant answer your question. For me it was simply an attraction like any other except he was black. I found excitement just because of our color contrast. Something as simple as holding hands or kissing is all it took for me. The size was never important really-he was just different. I think I fell in love and I do miss him. So I would tell you size is not everything.

Wow
 

Wow !!!!!!!!!!!!

perfect size
 

22-26cm and not too thick imo

Size for me
 

I have 2 men before getting married. Then my husband . All these white men were average at 6.5 inches. The sex was great, or I thought. My husband is older and he has erection problems ,as many older men do. we would have sex maybe twice a month, leaving me wanting more ,but being a good wife I went along with it. A co-worker had told me she had a black boyfriend and that the sex was better than she had ever had. I will admit that i was interested in hearing more. she talked me in joining them at a club. I was scared to tell the truth,but more curious. It was the second time i went when a Blackman made me feel open to him. We went to a motel and I found out what I was missing. He was 9inches and thick. It made me feel like a new women. We kept up our relation for 5 years. Me telling my husband that I was shopping each Saturday,but having GREAT SEX with my friend.. I finally confessed to my husband ,after the third year. He understood and went along with my needs. We allowed him to watch us several times. Bob my husband would sometimes clean me out , making me feel ok with what I was dueing. My friend moved away and I was alone again for 3 years until I met my new lover. He is about the same size and we have had fantastic sex ever since .I think it is not only the size of these men verses white men,but the contrast in skin color that makes it more exciting for me.

Is it just about size
 

I personally don't think so. Most black men white females are interested in are the confident Alpha Males. We fuck like beasts ~ I know I do ~ cause I want to show this white slut the awsome power of a black man's cock ~ .Pounding that pussy mercilessly. I like to make her moan, scream, growl and groan.

I've Ibrought enough tears of joy and release that you can fill a bathtubwith . I release years of repressed desires and fantasies in the uptight mature white women. And I bring out the slut freak in the younger ones and in both we end up doing things they never thought they would do. I dominate the sex with stamina and endurance. Plus I love sex. I can suck a pussy for three days straight.

I like to get in her head, as well as,her pussy, her ass and her mouth.

This squirting thing ain't new, I've been making white women make a mess for years, some are just not
embarrassed by it anymore No - it's not just the size of a BBC Master, its the whole shabang. One white girl said 'Ooooh I love your lips, they're not just pink lines on a face like my husband's but real lips I can suck on".
Damm I love this country and the white women it has provided to me for our mutual pleasure. Peace. ;)