Is it just about size?
 

I am new to this site and after reading some of the threads I had to ask this.

Are the women only interested in black guys who have big dicks? Charm, personality, looks, interests, appearance, dress, career/job does not matter only a big dick? So if the guy was ugly with a thick hanging ten incher, you ladies will just throw yourselves at him?

So what about black men who dont fit the stereotype and small? Once you see that it is only say 2 inches, you lose interest and wont see him again? Are there any women on here who met guys who are small, what did you do?

Size is not everything, and it does not mean you are a 'real black man' because you are well hung. Its just stereotyping and silly. There are some black guys (and Im sure whites too) who look down on other bro's who are smaller than them in the toilets or gym showers. Some think well you may be better looking, smarter, more money, pretty wife, but my dick is more than double your little stump, so I'm a real man and therefore give more pleasure to chick than you.

So why all this talk about size. So a black guy with a small dick is wont be as satisfying in bed as a bro with a big one?

Yes it is
 

95 percent of women on here want the size and power of the Black Pipe and 95 percent of men on here come here to offer them just that. The other 5 percent maybe looking for something else, but the Purpose of this site from my point of view is to provide the ladies the Black Pipe. Relationships, Love etc. if they happen great! But the Black Pipe is the priority here.

wtf????????
 

so bro's who are small are not welcome? are people so fickle?

Also are some of these stories fake? Ive never heard of anyone tell them some white chick, hey met on a casual or work basis grabbed their crutch or dick and demand sex, Well not in London anyway

size
 

she is att 2 blk guys

I guess its what you like
 

Some women want younger men, some want men with big cocks, others want black men. I think men with really big cocks, (black or white) scares most women but at the same time, arouses her curiosity. I would love to see my wife with a large black cock (she knows this). Its just part of the excitement of it all.

Its not just about the size. there are big and small in all colors. Its more about what they have to offer. Or what the people want to give to it.

I can only answer form my perspective, not for the other ladies on the site. I am 58 and my husband is 64 with erectile dysfuntion. I love him dearly but he understands my need for younger men for sex. I guess it is the taboo aspect for my generation and the skin contrast, so I prefer black men. Since I am just looking for sex, size does matter to me. I prefer men over 8" and thick, if that makes me shallow, so be it, life is to short to not get what you want and enjoy it

Explain your point?
 

Not sure what it is you are trying to say. I have to ask why not go another site that is more to your liking? Surely you have read the vast amount of posts, where women on here over and over again say they desire size and girth. Why would they or why should they settle for 4 inches when their stated desire is 10 inches. It has nothing to do with other factors ( if guy is charming, educated, got personality) you may very well be a good dude. I think the issue is whatTHEY want.

Size is a main thing, but there are other factors as well.

Black guys are proud of their masculinity and they hold on it, many of them like sports and most of them manage the art of being direct and still act like a gentleman at the same time. Size, a healthy physical appearance and a strong personality is a mix that makes them irresitible to women who honestly listen to their desires.

Here in Europe - an probably also in some areas in the U.S. - white dudes are acting more and more like women; plus many of them are homo- or transsexual. One thing is that the reality of working - especially in office jobs - in industrialized countries lead to a "weaker" physical appearance over generations.

Furthermore - especially in Europe - media propagate a "metrosexual" self-image of males and when growing up many young men do not have positive father-figures with strong personalities. They sit behind the TV-set or play fantasy-games instead of going out-of-doors and do sports.

Women recognize an unsettled personality of a man very quickly and this - plus the physical benefits - is what makes them prefer blacks in many cases once they have the choice.

It is about size!
 

I can guarantee you that any woman that says size doesn't matter is a fucking liar or she just doesn't know any better because no one has ever really fucked the shit out of her with a really big dick. I'm not saying you can be a complete slob or asshole if you have a big dick because that isn't going to work either. But no matter how good of a guy you are and no matter how hard you try to please your woman in bed if you have an average dick you could only do better with a big one. Unfortunately you have to work with what you have because they haven't perfected cock enlargement yet like they have perfected boob jobs for women.

It's about size and rhythm
 

+1, as my username suggests I'm a GQ black guy day to day, but will fuck the shit out of a white girl in the bedroom

As a black man I also have to emphasize very strongly that we black dudes like to have a rhythm in fucking as well.

I like to see the look in a white woman's eyes and face when I hit a certain spot in her, knowing that she wants more and more and more of a black dick in her.

If I can make a white woman weak in the knees after fucking her, i.e. she has no energy left after I'm through putting in a workout on her, then I love that.

Size helps in that endeavor but us brothas (or myself anyway) also like to utilize a lot of short strokes at first then built up to long strokes and a lot of movement of the hips and body when fucking.

I'm all about creating hot, intense, sweaty, passionate sex that unleashes the inner freak of white women. :)

I like you ;)

This is my point.

This issue does not seem to be about preferences, as in some guys prefer women with big boobs to small boobs. Its more to do with stereotyping, ie black men are supposed to have blg dicks. So if you are black and are not well hung the insinuation is you are not a 'real' black man and less desirable to white women! very patronising and offensive.

So a question to the ladies, if you met a black guy the first thing you think about or want to know is how big is he? Is that how women really act? I thought men behaved like that. unlike boobs the dick is not readily visible untill it is shown, usually in the bedroom or whenever. Im not talking accidental slip outs. So if you met a guy on here and he kept you guessing about the size untill you were in the bedroom, if it was small, you would tell him to leave, no matter is other qualities? Has any woman on this site done that?

you probably guessed it, i am not in the hung camp, loads of black men aint either. But have been told i am attractive charming in good shape and intelligent. Never had a woman say to me, wished you were bigger, or dont really like small dicks they dont do much for me etc

Another stereotype coming out is a black guy has to be 'ghetto' or 'street tuff' that is what white women are attracted to. Sorry I dont watch "The Wire', MTV Bass or try to be a wannabee rapper or gangster. There are all types. Again can the ladies have their say, let me know if I am in the minority and wrong. At least it would enlighten me

I object to the assumption/stereotyping that a black man is supposed to be long and thick. I thought this site was about interracial dating. It did not say big dick black guys only. I should not have to change or find another site as teewest suggested, people on here should change their opinions or choose a site that caters for them.

I can say its not always about size for me being that my husband has a fairly large cock (9"s). yeah a big dick is nice but for me its mostly about the taboo and domination from a black man. They are more aggressive and I love when they treat me like a slut. a large black man with a large black cock using me and my pussy for fucking and the taboo of being married and still taking their load makes me so hot. With that said, I still prefer large dicks over small.

Size of tool and white women
 

We are a white couple that enjoy 3-way or more hetero sex mostly with black men. My wife prefers black men due to their dependability, stamina, enthusiasm, and respect they show for her. White men are undependable and selfish lovers. As to size, if a woman learns to G-spot orgasm she will begin preferring men with thicker and longer members. The additional size allows a woman to Gspot orgasm easier. But, with most things in life the skillfull use of the equipment you have will win the day. Some black men with smaller tools have brought my wife to multiple Gspot orgasms by their technique and their unselfish attitudes. My wife is ALWAYS looking for new black men to play with so give her a call or text at 614-743-0756 anytime. I may answer so dont hang up, we work as a team.
Toni n Bruce
Columbus, Ohio

in my book ALL BLACK men are considered kings and should be treated as such...regardless of anything else

The huge dick thing not a must for us. We have met all sizes and for us its more about a decent gyuy to have some fun with and her preference is for the guy to be black. But she does prefer them younger.

However there has been the odd guy who was very well endowed and she loved it.
She has a large black dildo for play but cant seem to take much more than 6 inches or so normally.

However one guy we met scareed her when he said he used extra large condoms. He was very long and thick and whislt we never measured it, it must have gone close to 11 or 12 inches.

She was worried it would hurt her or she woud dissapoint him in not being able to take it.
On the night she was so turned on she didnt have a problem at all. She could only manage the head in her mouth but she was hot she took him all with ease.
Not sure where she fitted it but its was great to watch her take so much black meat cowgirl styleso easily, something shes never been able to do with my 7 incher.

Glad to hear you like that, :)

Bingo, you hit the nail on the head. The whole excitement factor starts in the mind for women.

I can never stress this enough to dudes. Get a woman in the right frame of mind and her body will do amazing things.

Even if a guy has a big dick, if he just sticks it in and starts fucking and climaxes and the woman is left unfulfilled, that would not be good sex for her in any shape, way or form. That is selfish sex for him.

A woman has to be mentally stimulated, build up her excitement, slow sensual kisses to her neck and body at first, work over that clit with your tongue to increase her passion, only when she is very worked up and craving more, do you move in with the dick.

Personally I despise bad sex, it should be illegal, :)

As a man I ALWAYS want to make sure a woman gets off, I derive my greatest pleasure and fulfillment from seeing her body shake from orgasm.

But for me it always starts with getting her in an excellent frame of mind and letting go of all her inhibitions.

There are so many ways a woman can climax, Clitoris, G-spot, A-spot orgasms.

Some guys just need to learn about the female body and how the parts work and they can do amazing things to her. :)

well to me its about or seems to be about reducing the black man to just being a big agrressive dick like a sex machine. I know James Brown made that tune and some said he was reflecting the sexual myth and stereotype of aggresive sexually dominant black males. We are all types. not just to be reduced to being a big dick. Theres more about a black man than just that sterotype

lekbo99@yahoo.com

My girlfriend is definitely into the size, especially thickness. But, there's a lot more to it. And, I've learned a lot about making love to a woman just by watching the Big Black Bulls operate, when they're fucking her. They are masters of charm and persuasion. I swear that most of these guys could sweet talk a girl into doing anything, and then make her beg for more.

I don't want a black guy if he isn't big...if he isn't 8 inches or bigger I don't want it

for my wife 8 inches or more is an absolute must. additionally - she likes her bulls being aggressive, dominant, rough... and yet respecting her limits

for me is not all about the size tbh .look ,and personality is important to me too .BY The way I had an east asian bf and he was about 10 inches or so . I didnt like it it hurts .my experence

It's about the eroticism of it all. I am a size queen who prefers big cocks (any race, I have met big gusy from all races and small ones too), black guys are the preferred big ones because I find it so erotic with a black guy, I don't know why I just do. Also black guys (in my experience) tend to be much nicer to me then white guys, Black guys are gentlemen. Most white guys just fuck and finish. Every black guy I have been with won't stop until I am satisfied, most white guys end when they are finished. Black guys finish the job and thats why they are the best

Size is one piece of the puzzle
 

Size is nice and certainly a plus. I had sex with a couple of white guys in HS and college. It was ok, but the passion was not there as a couple have said. And, yes not all black guys are hung and huge, but it is what they do with it that makes the difference.

Being a thick girl, white guys would say I was fat or had "thunder thighs". Black guys thought I was sexy. My first black guy was very nice. He taught me alot about sex. I then started to dress sexier and he liked it and it made me feel good about me. After him, I had a few more and at frat parties, the black guys would want me. I enjoyed the attention. After college, it seemed to be the same ole stuff. White guys thought I was fat and they were after the pettite model type. That was not me. I was not going back to HS, where I just layed there until the guy was finished. I wanted to enjoy sex as well.

I met a couple of black guys, we dated and it was nice. I went 4 months until I met my husband. Well, he is an accountant, very sexy, athletic and he is black. We went out three times, before we could finally be alone. Well, he is large and he was amazed that I took him. He had dates in the past that refused him. He treats me like a queen, and we have two kids. His friends are always making comments about how lucky he is to have me, but I am also lucky to have him.

So, size does make a difference, but it is how the sex is. We enjoy giving pleasure to each other, and that makes a difference. Women want good sex as well as men, but some men think it is about them.

As for why I am on this site, I enjoy the pics and the chat. A girl can get what she wants, we have to set the standards. And yes there are some terrible black lovers as well. They come in all sizes and colors.

I have a question for the Ladies...

Just a lil curious...OK a lot curious...how does a big cock feel different than an average one? Also, if it's average length but thick or long but average thickness does that work out good as well? I know my wife prefers 9 or above, but I know if it's like 6.5 thick she can't take over 8 and if it's average or slightly over she can take 9 and over. So I guess my real other question is which is better thickness or length. Ya I know both is perfect but what if the guy is one and not the other?

Gotta luv Julie..
 

Here -here Julie well said.... I am with you- For me white women have always been willing to sex me like I like and in return I would sex them like they liked... It was mutual and still to this day it is.... Black women at least the ones I have been with enjoy sex like that a lot less then the white women i have met over the years.. that's what keeps me going back...and they seem to appreciate my size more :p

A black guy with a small or average size cock is screwed, they all want the myth of the bbc!

are you in this category?

I can't agree more. of course size is important. to me size, not monsters, but big cocks are by far better than struggling to feel anything inside me. No woman wants a tiny cock inside her and i'm not insensitive towards guys with small dicks but for proper stimulation you need some decent equipment. anything under 7 inches won't work unless it is extra thick. black dicks of 8 + inches and really thick is just the thing. if you can get a thick black 10+ incher it's a bonus that you should enjoy.

So....
 

How does a big cock feel different than an average one?

Also, if it's average length but extra thick or long but average thickness does that work out good as well?

I know my wife prefers 9 or above, but I know if it's like 6.5 thick she can't take over 8 and if it's average or slightly over on thickness she can take 9 easily.

So I guess my real other question is which is better thickness or length?

Yah I know both is perfect, but what if the guy is one and not the other?

hmmm
 

*WARNING! Submissive rant coming!*

I'm a submissive woman. That means I'm strong enough to stand on my own and strong enough to choose to kneel to my Husband/Dom. After many years in a decidedly kinky D/s marriage and the BDSM community I have learned that the largest and most powerful sex organ is the mind. Size, color, attitude, behavior, etc...they all have their biggest impact in the mind. I'm hardly in a position to judge another person's fetishes or preferences, whatever they may be. Cock size, color, weight, clothes, language, hair, muscles, choice of toys...the list goes on forever and each of them is okay. But each of them is a fetish or a preference or both...nothing more. Some may disagree, but from my perspective the superiority, sexual or otherwise, of any group or race exists only in the minds of those who desire for it to be that way. I know that in my case, though I've fucked and been fucked by men with locks larger than Sir's, to this day no one has made me orgasm as hard, as frequently or as often as he has. No one else fills me with the desire and need to kneel at his feet and worship him and his body. The reason? He knows and owns me...heart, soul, body and mind. Because of that, even though it can be great fun when he shares me with other men, no one has ever been able to do to me what he does.
-slut

good
 

that is so right, if u love bbc, go and get your bbc

I m a BBC lover nodoubt
I went w/o one for 9months ;all of this year, untill last weekend
I only had sex with my husband during that time maybe 4-5 times

His cock is like 5-6" and thin.
If you think that size matters, your right
Ive never gotten so wet and horny w/my husband like I do when Im
with a blk guy and his big blk cock,
Ive been lucky so far, I believe 10 out of 10 since I had my first experence
about 5 years ago.
I can say that my second time sucked .
It wasnt what I wanted.
I took my husband to a club to meet up with what I thought was a good friend, at that time, a blk man
that I worked with, we talked alot at work and I told him about my first experemce
I didnt tell my husband about him untill after that nite.
So we met him and after some drinks we went to his place
My husband didnt really get along w/him and as soon as I started to get felt up and kissed on then
my friend wanted my husband to leave and I told my husband things too that he didnt like so he took
off and then me and my friend had sex.
It started off good but then he started to get rough and then he called me names and said things to me I
didnt like.
He basically turned on me or against me.' he had issuesfrom the past
He held my arms down as he fucked me and sweat was dripping on me till I was drinched
After he was done I used his bathroom then asked him to use his phone to call my husband
I also asked him if he would turn on his a/c and if I could get something to drink
Only thing I got was a phone call and I left a message to get me,
he didnt get me a drink or turn on the a/c
He wanted more sex and he started calling me names again
He went for my nipples and I got mad but he kept it up and then he got ahold of them and pinched , squeezed them so hard then bit on them as if he was going to bite them off
he wanted me to suck his cock and suck it off too.
I wasnt into it which pissed him off so he took it out on my pussy
thank god he wasnt into doing my ass, guess not all blk guys are into that,
But his friends were, and they were on there way which I didnt know about
He finished me off after cumming inside me then got up and left me
I then got up and used the bathroom again and put my cloths on
When I came out I heard him talking about me and it wasnt very nice
Like I was some cheap whore, tramp, big time slut
I asked to use the phone then I saw his friends as I walked into his living room
right away they went off on me saying all kinds of nasty things
there was 3 of them
all I can say is that they had their way with me untill 9am
thats when I called my husband and he answered
He picked me up soon after that and I didnt say a word on the way home
this was the only bad experence I had and it can happen to anyone believe me
some women love it that way but its not what Im into
other then that Ive been with the nicest blk guys and have been treated like a queen

It works both ways. Most guys like a nice tight pussy and they don't want a woman with a big, sloppy, stretched out pussy. Well, most guys that aren't cuckolds don't want that.

If you're vagina is so big and stretched out that you can't feel an average sized dick, then you are not giving him any pleasure either.

Of course I love a big one. But I still have great sex with my husband and hes average size. This after having sex with my boyfriends probably close to 100 times by now and they are pretty big. The longest guy i was ever with was pretty lousy, he didn't know how to use it, crappy personality, we didn't click at all. So yes I definately want a big one, but no its not everything.

For me, I love EVERYTHING about black men. Far more than just having a big ol' cock! That just adds to getting me excited!

There are some women who physically cannot take the larger cock (thank god I can). And no matter how big, if the guy doesn't know how to use it, then its not good. Know how to use your cock. And if the guy has an average dick, if they can eat pussy well, then not all is lost

Let the truth be told.
 

I congratulate you on your answer! My man is well aware of what satisfys me n frankly i've had huge BBC n average BBC. If a man cannot relish my pussy with his tongue, toys n with passionate lust, i don't care how big his cock is i will not be satisfied. All men can fuck but few can suck pussy like a master. For me, the talent of satisfaction must be divided between both sucking n fucking but i understand not all women are the same, so likes n dislikes will vary.