are you in this category?

I can't agree more. of course size is important. to me size, not monsters, but big cocks are by far better than struggling to feel anything inside me. No woman wants a tiny cock inside her and i'm not insensitive towards guys with small dicks but for proper stimulation you need some decent equipment. anything under 7 inches won't work unless it is extra thick. black dicks of 8 + inches and really thick is just the thing. if you can get a thick black 10+ incher it's a bonus that you should enjoy.

So....
 

How does a big cock feel different than an average one?

Also, if it's average length but extra thick or long but average thickness does that work out good as well?

I know my wife prefers 9 or above, but I know if it's like 6.5 thick she can't take over 8 and if it's average or slightly over on thickness she can take 9 easily.

So I guess my real other question is which is better thickness or length?

Yah I know both is perfect, but what if the guy is one and not the other?

hmmm
 

*WARNING! Submissive rant coming!*

I'm a submissive woman. That means I'm strong enough to stand on my own and strong enough to choose to kneel to my Husband/Dom. After many years in a decidedly kinky D/s marriage and the BDSM community I have learned that the largest and most powerful sex organ is the mind. Size, color, attitude, behavior, etc...they all have their biggest impact in the mind. I'm hardly in a position to judge another person's fetishes or preferences, whatever they may be. Cock size, color, weight, clothes, language, hair, muscles, choice of toys...the list goes on forever and each of them is okay. But each of them is a fetish or a preference or both...nothing more. Some may disagree, but from my perspective the superiority, sexual or otherwise, of any group or race exists only in the minds of those who desire for it to be that way. I know that in my case, though I've fucked and been fucked by men with locks larger than Sir's, to this day no one has made me orgasm as hard, as frequently or as often as he has. No one else fills me with the desire and need to kneel at his feet and worship him and his body. The reason? He knows and owns me...heart, soul, body and mind. Because of that, even though it can be great fun when he shares me with other men, no one has ever been able to do to me what he does.
-slut

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that is so right, if u love bbc, go and get your bbc

I m a BBC lover nodoubt
I went w/o one for 9months ;all of this year, untill last weekend
I only had sex with my husband during that time maybe 4-5 times

His cock is like 5-6" and thin.
If you think that size matters, your right
Ive never gotten so wet and horny w/my husband like I do when Im
with a blk guy and his big blk cock,
Ive been lucky so far, I believe 10 out of 10 since I had my first experence
about 5 years ago.
I can say that my second time sucked .
It wasnt what I wanted.
I took my husband to a club to meet up with what I thought was a good friend, at that time, a blk man
that I worked with, we talked alot at work and I told him about my first experemce
I didnt tell my husband about him untill after that nite.
So we met him and after some drinks we went to his place
My husband didnt really get along w/him and as soon as I started to get felt up and kissed on then
my friend wanted my husband to leave and I told my husband things too that he didnt like so he took
off and then me and my friend had sex.
It started off good but then he started to get rough and then he called me names and said things to me I
didnt like.
He basically turned on me or against me.' he had issuesfrom the past
He held my arms down as he fucked me and sweat was dripping on me till I was drinched
After he was done I used his bathroom then asked him to use his phone to call my husband
I also asked him if he would turn on his a/c and if I could get something to drink
Only thing I got was a phone call and I left a message to get me,
he didnt get me a drink or turn on the a/c
He wanted more sex and he started calling me names again
He went for my nipples and I got mad but he kept it up and then he got ahold of them and pinched , squeezed them so hard then bit on them as if he was going to bite them off
he wanted me to suck his cock and suck it off too.
I wasnt into it which pissed him off so he took it out on my pussy
thank god he wasnt into doing my ass, guess not all blk guys are into that,
But his friends were, and they were on there way which I didnt know about
He finished me off after cumming inside me then got up and left me
I then got up and used the bathroom again and put my cloths on
When I came out I heard him talking about me and it wasnt very nice
Like I was some cheap whore, tramp, big time slut
I asked to use the phone then I saw his friends as I walked into his living room
right away they went off on me saying all kinds of nasty things
there was 3 of them
all I can say is that they had their way with me untill 9am
thats when I called my husband and he answered
He picked me up soon after that and I didnt say a word on the way home
this was the only bad experence I had and it can happen to anyone believe me
some women love it that way but its not what Im into
other then that Ive been with the nicest blk guys and have been treated like a queen

It works both ways. Most guys like a nice tight pussy and they don't want a woman with a big, sloppy, stretched out pussy. Well, most guys that aren't cuckolds don't want that.

If you're vagina is so big and stretched out that you can't feel an average sized dick, then you are not giving him any pleasure either.

Of course I love a big one. But I still have great sex with my husband and hes average size. This after having sex with my boyfriends probably close to 100 times by now and they are pretty big. The longest guy i was ever with was pretty lousy, he didn't know how to use it, crappy personality, we didn't click at all. So yes I definately want a big one, but no its not everything.

For me, I love EVERYTHING about black men. Far more than just having a big ol' cock! That just adds to getting me excited!

There are some women who physically cannot take the larger cock (thank god I can). And no matter how big, if the guy doesn't know how to use it, then its not good. Know how to use your cock. And if the guy has an average dick, if they can eat pussy well, then not all is lost

Let the truth be told.
 

I congratulate you on your answer! My man is well aware of what satisfys me n frankly i've had huge BBC n average BBC. If a man cannot relish my pussy with his tongue, toys n with passionate lust, i don't care how big his cock is i will not be satisfied. All men can fuck but few can suck pussy like a master. For me, the talent of satisfaction must be divided between both sucking n fucking but i understand not all women are the same, so likes n dislikes will vary.