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[jodired]

Notice how all the women posting here say the same thing. We don't want to "make love"...we want to FUCK. I never reached anything close to an orgasm from "making love." I had my FIRST orgasms of my life at age 31 with the first Black Man to FUCK me. And I cum pretty much every time with every Black Man since then

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by jodired

I never reached anything close to an orgasm from "making love

Then someone wasn't doing it right.

My vote is for both..

[AlinaM]

It's a bit of both!!

[JandGinSD]

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

Spot on!!! Gotta have all the above.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

This really validates one of the many emotional differences between men and women that I learned about many moons ago. A woman craves intimacy or "closeness" to a man in order to fully enjoy having sex with him. Whereas, on the other hand, a man craves sex with a woman in order to feel that same "closeness" to her.

Neither of these emotions is "better" or "worse" than the other. It's just the way we are naturally wired as men and women. And the beautiful thing about it is this. Although the male and the female "equations" here look different, the goal that each man and woman who are sexually attracted to each other wants to achieve is exactly the same. Intimacy. Closeness.

Men want that too ladies. Very much so! We just express ourselves about it differently. Now, TMV is 100% right. There is indeed a lesson here for men. BUT, there is also a lesson here for women too! So many women think they already understand men, but so many women absolutely do not. They really, really, really don't.

Both men AND women need to take time out to really learn about and understand what makes the other gender tick. When both men and women do that, they just might be shocked to discover that they're actually both trying to achieve the exact same thing when it comes to sex. Romance. Intimacy. Closeness. They just have a different way of showing it is all.

[nwprincess]

Straight fuckin
Theres time 4 intimacy also but mostly straight fuckin :P

[debbie49]

I have been with 4 Blackmen over the years. the first three where fucking, just plain sex Very satisfing,but just raw sex. then i started with my now steady BBC. He is very tender to me and we have long foreplay before ,and I am totally arroused and finding that i am more wetter and excited when we do it. He will kiss me all over and caress my body,making me wanting to go down on him and get him erect . when he enters me it is slowlyy and very gentle,sliding fully into my pussy fully after a few strokes. Then he waits deep inside of me allowing me to feel his full presence and then we begin that slow rythem and taking each other to full bliss. when i feel him cum in me I have learned to squeeze my vagina in response to his filling me with his cum, then iam pleased knowing that I did my part. My husband who watches us,says to him it looks like we are lovemaking. He is right. the sex with tyrell is lovemaking,we don't fuck. I truley love my husband and would NEVER leave him,but i must say that I do have an emotional relationship with Tyrell. My husband is ok withus fucking in front of him,as he is usually unable to provide the sex i need. He does enjoy cleaning me out after Tyrell leaves and sometimes he will get hard and enjoy my used pussy,not often ,but just enough for me to tell him How much I love him for letting me enjoy BBC,

[Lozonock]

She takes it how I give it to her.

[tracyjane47]

Straight fuck