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Husband and wife here writing this.
What we want to know is how do you know when it's safe to allow her to have sex with a BBC?
As in we want to know how do you know when you can do something like that and still be safe in your relationship?
We've been together about 20 years and are very sexual and always have been.
We have AWESOME SEX! and just like to do spice things up here and there.
We've only been with each other since we've been together so this would be very new to us.

We just wasn't sure if there were ways to tell if it would kill the relationship or things to look out for in our current relationship as to avoid something like that?
And it's not that we're really doubting ourselves as much as we just want to make the right choice and getting a little advice on helping us do that.

Like I said we have great sex and have for the past 20 years. A lot of the time we have sex about 5 times a week.
We started watching some IR porn about 10 years ago and it was an instant turn on to the wife so then that became an instant turn on for him.
We've been talking about having her sleep with a black guy for at least 7 years now if not since we first started watching IR porn.
We've just never seem to really do it, but we both would love too, but like everyone in a relationship we're just wondering if it would strengthen our relationship overall and sexually or destroy it.

We've thought about rules we've have if we did it. How we'd have it set up, how she'd dress, and a few other details of the ordeal. We want to make sure we'd have fun and keep it within our boundaries.

So, how do you know when the right time is to do something like that without ruining your long great perfect relationship?

Any real help or advice would be much appreciated.