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Being a Gentleman Isn't Being Nice.........
I've found that "nice" is too relative a word to describe a man's approach to a woman. Being a gentleman with a sense of humor but with a No BS approach confidence and straight forwardness is appreciated more. Nice is too general of a term and misleading. It's generally used to characterize something with acceptable aspects but is not compelling or desirable.
I believe when a woman or couple on this site meet a black male they expect a gentleMAN. And I'm not referring to just a BBC. Interesting and stimulating conversation, mutual respect, courtesy in the "palor" and BLACK STEEL in a velvet glove in the sack. I have no doubt that the majority of women on this site are familar with "NICE" guys they wouldn't want to fuck. There isn't much passion or chemistry in "nice". The "nice" approach fails to convey a definite and unclouded appreciation of the female's sensuality and desirability. |
Totaly agree with Big Daddy.
Bottom line is often the nice guys hang back and miss out. |
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Oh and shug, I'm very hard to train and even harder to break.. ;) Besides you wouldn't like it if I was all trained and broken in. :p Quote:
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Lol nice guy
No, women love jerks who are over confident and arrogant.
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it's a sad truth
Its a very sad truth, but women reall don't like nice guys. nice guys don't really assert themselves in public. they don't go hitting on women often either. Most times a woman has to approach a good guy cause he's way too focused on getting his shit together. I can only really speak for myself being that I fit this category. I've been that guy watching as a homegirl hooks up with some lame wannabe just cause he pretends to be hiphop or whatever the case maybe. Good women pass up great men daily with their noses in the air. Not even realizing that the quiet guys are normally the nasty beasts behind scenes. So back to my main point, women actually don't like nic guys at all. They rather be with assholes that will fuck around on them. It's not like nice guys are hiding. They are becoming extinct from being mistreated by women over and over again. If you truely are looking for happiness in all areas of a relationship, then WOMEN!! its time for you to open your eyes and start looking at what's in front of you already. I'm willing to bet that there's a great guy friend of yours that is madly in love with you.. you've just been too ignorant to look back at me correctly. Times have changed. Its time the lioness starts hunting herself
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agree
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Eat Your Veggies!
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"Nice" is subjective, chicks don't RESPECT simps, tricks and pushovers. Sure they might like you but only for certain things such as money and personal mindfucking entertainment on the low every once in a while.
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Yummy!
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