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[patty4fun]

Politeness and a friendly manner coupled with good humor are the qualities I look for and I cannot understand why some women are attracted to men who speak to them badly and treat them roughly. My boyfriend is African and so warm , thoughtful and such a good natured person, which is why we have been seeing each other for about five years now.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by big_daddytx2007

Nice guys always finish last and more women think they are weak and do not speak highly of them. A nice guy will be considered as a friend (another place you do not want to be) but not looked upon as a potential lover or soulmate. I'm not saying most women like Jerks, but the Jerks seem to more often get the girl than not and the nice guys get to clean up after the Jerk has departed.

I disagree, If you are talking about an actual relationship (as I believe Newblk was) then no SELF RESPECTiNG woman would want a jerk for a "soul mate" .. Just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he is weak,.

[newblkman22]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

I disagree, If you are talking about an actual relationship (as I believe Newblk was) then no SELF RESPECTiNG woman would want a jerk for a "soul mate" .. Just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he is weak,.

Yes I was talking about an actual relationship, not all the time it just feels like "nice guys" get passed up for said jerk, I just wanted to ask some of the ladies here their opinion and once again you prove why your the perfect woman you gave me an honest and intelligent answer.

[m4272000]

Originally Posted by newblkman22

Yes I was talking about an actual relationship, not all the time it just feels like "nice guys" get passed up for said jerk, I just wanted to ask some of the ladies here their opinion and once again you prove why your the perfect woman you gave me an honest and intelligent answer.

What every woman wants is a nice guy who really knows how to please them mentally, physically and in some case, financially. Nice guys will get more pussy and ass than any jerk ever could. It's all about attitude. I don't think and believe most woman want a jerk in their lives, just like men don't want a bitch in theirs either. Slut or a whore, Yes, maybe!!! Women wants a man who can appreciate them for who they are, satisfy them in and out of the bedroom and will make them feel special like they are.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by m4272000

What every woman wants is a nice guy who really knows how to please them mentally, physically and in some case, financially. Nice guys will get more pussy and ass than any jerk ever could. It's all about attitude. I don't think and believe most woman want a jerk in their lives, just like men don't want a bitch in theirs either. Slut or a whore, Yes, maybe!!! Women wants a man who can appreciate them for who they are, satisfy them in and out of the bedroom and will make them feel special like they are.

@ Newblk~~ listen to m427 he won't steer you wrong, well except for that whole ATM thing. But that's another matter..

@Thick~~ "Captain-save-a-Ho" Haha okay was funny.. Oh and good let those women chase after the bad apples that just leaves more good ones for real women who appreciate the good guys!!

[m4272000]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

@ Newblk~~ listen to m427 he won't steer you wrong, well except for that whole ATM thing. But that's another matter..

What you got against ATM baby??? You seriously think I would refuse to put my mouth to your ass? If you have not tried it, then you have no idea just how incredible nasty and kinky ATM is. Where is my bags?? I think I am coming to Mississippi.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by m4272000

What you got against ATM baby??? You seriously think I would refuse to put my mouth to your ass? If you have not tried it, then you have no idea just how incredible nasty and kinky ATM is. Where is my bags?? I think I am coming to Mississippi.

lol, I said ATM (ass to mouth) not MTA (mouth to ass) lol. Ya know we had that discussion a long time ago, about doing anal, pulling out and then sticking the dck right into her mouth.. Umm that would be in my mouth and that's a big No Go on that!! Now MTA (mouth to ass) well that's ur mouth and my ass, knock yourself out!! Lol

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

I disagree, If you are talking about an actual relationship (as I believe Newblk was) then no SELF RESPECTiNG woman would want a jerk for a "soul mate" .. Just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he is weak,.

Every woman right down to the last one will SAY she wants a nice guy, but the truth is that many, many women are attracted to and end up with "bad boys". Often times, these women think that they can "change" the guy into something he isn't. It's a recipe for disaster.

Same thing for guys attracted to "fast and easy" troubled women. Some of these guys like to play "Captains-Save-A-Ho" thinking they can "save" the woman, when in fact, she doesn't want to be saved from anything, including herself. Many men fantasize about being with a slut or a ho, but if and when the dream comes true, they can end up with a nightmare on their hands that they can't handle.

[mightymemnon]

I've found that "nice" is too relative a word to describe a man's approach to a woman. Being a gentleman with a sense of humor but with a No BS approach confidence and straight forwardness is appreciated more. Nice is too general of a term and misleading. It's generally used to characterize something with acceptable aspects but is not compelling or desirable.

I believe when a woman or couple on this site meet a black male they expect a gentleMAN. And I'm not referring to just a BBC. Interesting and stimulating conversation, mutual respect, courtesy in the "palor" and BLACK STEEL in a velvet glove in the sack. I have no doubt that the majority of women on this site are familar with "NICE" guys they wouldn't want to fuck. There isn't much passion or chemistry in "nice". The "nice" approach fails to convey a definite and unclouded appreciation of the female's sensuality and desirability.

[wantuinme2001]

Totaly agree with Big Daddy.

Bottom line is often the nice guys hang back and miss out.