Husbands and Wives... be honest.
 

Here's a question for each of you:

Husbands: Do you really like seeing another man fuck your wife?

Wives: Do you really like screwing with a stranger or multiple strangers?

I'm just curious. I wonder why marriage vows are broken on here and why most husbands/wives degrade themselves on camera. Not to mention the risk of possible STDs, etc.

If someone tries to turn this into a race war... I'm not black or white. FYI.

Your answer
 

elfhair
 

DITTO! elfhair hit it right on the head!

i dont see anything wrong with 2 adults consenting to do whatever makes them happy as long as they are not hurting anyone in the process...

Its all about having fun!
 

We do truly love it. I enjoy seeing another man enjoy what I enjoy. it's kinda like sharing good food. It is also all about her pleasure and since we do it together and i almost always join in it is perfect. Have you ever seen the face or heard the pleasure of a woman taking two cocks at once.

I think several answers are right on. This is about consenting adults expanding their sexual horizons and being gracious enough to share it with us out here. More power to them and my best wishes. Have really enjoyed seeing this part of life I have not been able to participate in. Thanks again to all you posters.

My husband isn't well endowed and I am a few years younger than him so my libido has increased while his has deminished. He enjoys seeing me with younger larger men and the skin color difference is erotic to both of us. I don't think it is breaking our marriage vows when it is done with my husbands knowlwdge and blessing. Like one of the writers above I don't do it with stangers bareback without proof of testing. I know it has improved and strengthened our marriage and hopefully made some black men happy in the process.

my wife loves being pimped out to black studs only if im present its my job as a husband to make shure she is totally satisfied and not be selfish her first was a hung black stud.were married now 20 years and i love watching her get cummed in (black cock only )

Did you know that humans are the only animals on Earth that engage in sex for pleasure? In every other species sex is strictly a pro-creational act. We are also the only species that engages in multiple positions.
Besides jealousy isn't a sign of love; it's a sign of either power and control or insecurity.

I ALWAYS ENJOYED watching my wife enjoying herself with another guy,especially when she had Love for him,then it was REALLY HOT to watch as she would totally get lost in Lust and Passion with him!!! :p

ANd to what religion and vows are you holding in contempt here on ILIR?
Not everyone is "you". With that said people are just that. You want to think your way and think people are breaking vows? Gotta tell you something. This has been going on longer than you care to think and part of every culture since man existed.

And im just talking about having sex with many men or men having sex with many women. You would be surprised how many have induldged in the taboo of both sex outside of your spouse and the taboo if another skin color.

When you seperate sex from love then you will realize that the "Vows" your talking about are not about the body but the mind.

I truely believe after doing a lot of research on these sites and from personal experience, the best chance a guy like me has to be happy with his girlfriend/wife is to worship her and serve her the same way she'll be serving the Black God who'll be filling her with a pleasure no white man can or willl ever give his woman; they're better than us, strong faster smarter bigger, more desireable to our women... I loathe admitting it, but I'd submit to a Bull if he had my womans mind and body and heart, just so I could at least kiss her feet or be near her without losing her completly to a FORCE that I cann't hope to stand up to on any level. I don't know how I got so ensnared into this philosophy of Black Superiority, I guesss I just felt like it was true after stumbling across a few sites accidentily, I couldn't stop reading more, learning more of what I should be doing to better serve white females that I worship so I guess I need to support the incredible Black Bulls that make me nothing more than a helpless white boy. I'm kind of grateful for the info out there that has helped me learn my worthlessness as anything but a servant on my hands and knees before my betters.
I might've realized Black guys were far superior to me in every way on every level, when the girl I hadl a crush on, was so in love with for the early years of my life through high school, used to use me for money & to beat on me until someonen stopped her then i'd asked her to hang out and she'd be with some Black guy who'd just give me a look and kick my out of the house, & they'd be laughing at me.
Is the only way I can find true happiness in a relationship is to find a girl i can love, who'll tolerate me as long as I cater to her need for those big black cocks that steal away thousands of white girls forever every year. I suppose I'ld be a willing eager submissive boyfriend for the girl I meet. I struggle with the plain fact of the plauge of pathetic white men that fill our society and all we can do is fall in line and kneel before the true Master Race of our world along with the white women who've already realized this truth.

Not saying I like it, but millions of us will have to learn to love it.
 

I truely believe after doing a lot of research on these sites and from personal experience, the best chance a guy like me has to be happy with his girlfriend/wife is to worship her and serve her the same way she'll be serving the Black God who'll be filling her with a pleasure no white man can or willl ever give his woman; they're better than us, strong faster smarter bigger, more desireable to our women... I loathe admitting it, but I'd submit to a Bull if he had my womans mind and body and heart, just so I could at least kiss her feet or be near her without losing her completly to a FORCE that I cann't hope to stand up to on any level. I don't know how I got so ensnared into this philosophy of Black Superiority, I guesss I just felt like it was true after stumbling across a few sites accidentily, I couldn't stop reading more, learning more of what I should be doing to better serve white females that I worship so I guess I need to support the incredible Black Bulls that make me nothing more than a helpless white boy. I'm kind of grateful for the info out there that has helped me learn my worthlessness as anything but a servant on my hands and knees before my betters.
I might've realized Black guys were far superior to me in every way on every level, when the girl I hadl a crush on, was so in love with for the early years of my life through high school, used to use me for money & to beat on me until someonen stopped her then i'd asked her to hang out and she'd be with some Black guy who'd just give me a look and kick my out of the house, & they'd be laughing at me.
Is the only way I can find true happiness in a relationship is to find a girl i can love, who'll tolerate me as long as I cater to her need for those big black cocks that steal away thousands of white girls forever every year. I suppose I'ld be a willing eager submissive boyfriend for the girl I meet. I struggle with the plain fact of the plauge of pathetic white men that fill our society and all we can do is fall in line and kneel before the true Master Race of our world along with the white women who've already realized this truth.

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my husband hates seeing and knowing im fucking black guys, thats why i now either dont tell him or dont let him watch, he gets to jealous seeing his sexy big titted wife getting nailed by my black lover
as for screw strangers i love it, i love everything about it, knowing your gonna meet a guy and within minutes either be sucking his huge cock or bouncing up and down on it sound s me crazy..

wifes dont degrade themselves neither, were doing white women proud by having sex with these handsome black males, the more white women fuck black men the better they will feel and look xxx

1)In ouar swing party we meet other couple like us. I fuck the wife of my friends and my friends fuck my wife. We simply change (for one night) sex partner. Also we make "sandwich" with them. I think that this is simply sex, nothing about infidelity nad love, simply sex. I don't do love with others women and she doesn't do love with others men. About camera (in my camera) there is nothing of degrade. About the risk od desease, we are not stupids, we all use condom.
Him
2) yes, I love cock. my husband has a good cock, but luckily all his friend are alpha male.... so where is the problem?
Her

About other kind of a couple that there are in the site (cuckold, sissy, cleaner men), we personaly don't like their lifestyle, but they are adults and can do what they want.
Him & her

there is absolutly nothing wrong with consentual sex...in fact its a blast

we cant help what we like sexually as mature and sensible adults we both realized that blackmen give me much more pleasure in bed than my loving husband can and as a result we are extremly happy and content.

No, because I'm not a wimp. Why would your lady need another man to enjoy in the process? She has YOU for that, you pathetic little worm. I don't envy you right now... I guess its tough having a 3 inch penis and the only way you can please your wife is by getting her to have a gangbang with other guys. LOL.

Pathetic. Go leave your husband than and get a black man. The only downside is they won't support you financally like he can. Do what you do best: Be a fuckmeat for hung black/white guys.

Don't worry, you won't be the first to do that. Some cuckold hubbies on this site have reported that their women left/divcored them because of 'better men in bed'.

Go back under your bridge troll. 15 year olds aren't allowed on this site.

(Ironic... See my username)

Yes!
 

My husband always says a beautiful woman is like a new Mercedes Benz. Your friend can look at it and admire it but he really can't appreciate it until he takes it for a ride. ;-)

Dolphins have sex for pleasure too.
 

That's not true. Dolphins have sex for pleasure too.

Marriage, as defined by a couple
 

Originally, marriage was contract, and that contract was defined at its inception, i.e. the wedding. The couple should be free to specify what that contract contains, and what limitations and expectations should apply.

If a couple wishes to bring other people into it, that is their prerogative. Society need have no vested interest in examining what that contract may entail. In the perspective of thinking men and women, what possible objection could there be to humans enjoying their sexuality in the way they see fit, with whoever they choose. The only possible codicil is that all are adults and there of their own free will and desire.

The framers of the US Constitution did not enumerate sexual freedom in one's bedroom in the Bill of Rights only because they would have never felt it was necessary to do so. Even British Law recognized a man was sovereign in his own abode (please excuse the inherent sexism.)

Sorry! Your comments are not totally correct! There are at least a couple of species of monkeys that engage in sex for recreation! In fact, including homosexuality! They are also adept at enjoying it orally, both to their partners and self, and their young offspring are used for the sexual gratification of all at very tender ages!

People really do love it. Yes, husbands love it. I'm not married, but I'm dating a married woman. I'm one of her 3 lovers. I'm white, in case you people are wondering, and so is she.

I'd love to watch her have sex with her other boyfriend. He has a big dick, and he turns her on in other ways.

As for STD's, testing is enough risk protection for me, as well as not constantly fucking new people every weekend. I'd rather make those choices, and be able to go bare.

We all take risks in some way. Adventurous sex is worth it to us. On the other hand, I'm afraid to ride motorcycles because of the risks.

I got into this scene through my ex-husband - he wante me to fuck the young black guy that was living next door while he watched

The whole statement about marriage vows being broken relates directly to christianity, so let's look at it from that standpoint. The bible basically says when two people are married before God that there can be no sin in their bed.

To answer the question, YES, there is no lifestyle more conducive to true love IMO than those displayed on this website. I absolutely love seeing my wife's TRUE and uninhibited sexual preferences and knowing that I can experience this because she trusts me with those secrets which are "shameful" by society's standards. I would deny her nothing, because when it comes to her I am selfless.
And besides that, yes she loves variety, in that every new lover feels, looks, and tastes different, and who doesn't like to see something new now and again!??

as a husband yes its great to explore with your wife ,its only sex and its great to watch and see her get satisfied. well as a wife its just fantastic,a big black cock pounding my tight little pussy while my hubby watches or even joins. the colour as well black going into white .you should try it

I enjoy two men at once. One of them happens to be a very close friend that happens to be black. The other is my hubby ( both are straight I might add). I can not explain in words how well they work together in taking me almost beyond the limits of passion. We are all consenting adults and very close friends as I said. And our relationship is not totally based on sex alone. My hubby and our friend are both with me at the same time (one doing one thing and the other one doing something else) and it is truly an experience we all 3 enjoy and participate in yet we all will go out and eat and have great conversation as well. I hope we can always find more male friends like this for futre encounters as well. So we enjoy what we enjoy and that is it in a nutshell.

being a very small endowed jewish man i love when my jewish wife makes fun of how my penis is so small and tells me she really does wish to fuck black men in front of me.

I agree with susu56. If both persons are consenting and helping each other get pleasure, then it not cheating. It's giving each other honest and open pleasure with no strings, just the pleasure.

Yes, I enjoyed it!
 

I loved watching and knowing that my ex was being filled with black cock about as much as she liked having it.

Not breaking vows if it's a "we" thng
 

For us as long as we both consent and are both in on the planning and execution we don't consider it cheating. It's really hot seeing women who have been sexually repressed by society enjoying thenselves and taking pleasure in fucking another man. As far as strangers thats a little risky for us because of the whole STD thing but we do fantasize about it.

not true
 

that is so far from the truth there are many animals that has sex for fun look at dolphins for example if that is true why does a dog mount your leg to reproduce???

yes we love it to we have had fun for all fifteen years of our marriage and are planing many more

I'm in the same boat.

Just because you're not Black or White doesn't mean that you are not a racist against either (most likely Black though, since most non-Blacks dislike Blacks).

I'm a Black man (young and single) and I like to get laid by women that I find attractive that are not engaged in relationships themselves. While I'm single, if I could have my fun I would. Once committed to a relationship, I'd remain loyal to her and demand loyalty from her. The cuckold game disgusts me, and it sickens me to see my brothers degrade themselves to banging these fat, ugly white women while some freak that's a mix between the slave master and the womanish white liberal stares on. Some of these white men even talk about sucking black men's penises! It's absolutely sickening on multiple levels.

Species Sex
 

I believe Dolphins enjoy sex for pleasure and mate for life, also there is one kind of small monkey that enjoy a very polygamus sex life with any other monkey in their group.

I love her doing it im the one who told her to try it .She has had about 10 experiances with 4 different blk guys.I was involved tagteamin 2 times of that.The rest were by herself and it was hot waiting to hear what happened whith them but the wait also screws your stomach up caus you know its your wife that a black dude is pounding and you cant even imagine what they are doing but you know hes owniing your girls pussy and shes letting him , so you love it. I actually want her to have a blk guy dom and use her whenever he tells her. I actually want her to be so dick whipped that she cant wait to get used again.

not really such an easy question to answer,.from MY perspective it was the next step in a close friendship,..the four of us knew each other since we were teens,.( my wife's lover and i even work togeather),..he married his childhood sweetheart and as couples we did everything togeather ,.concerts,..vacations,.etc,..
after realizing how intimate our relationship had become it was a natural transition in to wife swapping/sharing.it just happened to be an INTERRACIAL mix,.(this is now a TWO year relationship) for my wife and her lover it's more a lustful pairing,.she's submissive yet sexually assertive and they refer to each other privatly as "bull and bitch",.. for myself and my ebony bedmate we tend to be more intimate .
our "arrangement" is guided by rules we all agreed to and are careful to maintain,.this reduces any chance of problems between us.,..(like keep out of each others marital or financial affairs)
to answer the second part of your question,..yes i enjoy seeing my wife take pleasure from another man and enjoying her sexuality.,.my wife likes acting the slut and even wears a collar whenever she's with her lover to show that he too OWNS her !,.for all intents he is ALSO her husband and mate,.
finally it comes down to how far it will go,..in truth i really don't know,.my wife would undoubtly LOVE to be bred and have a black mans baby ,.but we all agreed from the first what is open to one is acceptible for ALL,.so the only thing that prevents my wife and her lover is that i and my black bedmate would ALSO breed togeather .
our relationship is still young but i belive in time this will become inevitable,.

Having experienced this lifestyle, it is clear to me that both husbands and wives are sincerely into it. I suspect, though, that the attraction is an much psychological as physical. Most women find it painful to have sex with such well-endowed men, but the pain is actually part of the turn-on if the man is either black or exceptionally handsome. Ladies are more relaxed and submissive with these lucky guys. As for the men, our natural fetish has been enhanced by watching sites like this, where the idea of black sexual superiority is reinforced with each video. Please let me know if anyone either agrees or disagrees with this theory!