I have had an attraction to black men since college days and have had a regular steady boyfriend for some years since my husbands health sitiuation began to affect the intimate side of our marriage. Although it was my husbands suggestion that he would not object if I met other men, it was on the strict underatanding that I would be very discreet because of friends and family. Mostly my lover visits our home fairly frequently but when we are out together on a date well away from my home, I openly show affection and in no way feel ashamed of being seen with a black man.

You talk a good game but your English sounds too good to be true for an Italian girl. And you have no proof pics posted.

LoL, ya know what that means. Means its time to get verified!!
When in doubt, cam it out!!!

I saw her pic on a porn site comment section. Now it was an interracial scene that her pic was on, so I don't know if she is real or not. And you do make a good point about her English being strong.

Off topic....sorry.
 

Who do we cam verify with?Weve been on a few times,but is there some kind of person in charge we have to webcam chat to? Skin writing stuff is out of the question and we dont work for iloveinterracial.com.And from what weve seen most of that writing along with the postcards look photoshopped . Webcam should be the only way to do it.

It's 2012 And.....
 

It ain't no " Secret! "
In this day & age " All " women are looking for the same thing..and it's called .." Satisfaction ! "
Same thing for us Guys too.
Some women like light skin, some like dark but the underlying factor is .." You like what you like"
In my case ..I have a lotta " Energy " & it takes a lady with energy to stay with me..Some have it & some don't & that goes for all races of women across the board.. & I've said this before for me ..
" Red Heads " have been my best by far " Bed Battling Buddies " ( They really know how to kick it in to gear when it's " Crunch Time " )
And if out there is a better challenger to the " Natural " Red Head then apply this rule to them...
As they say in " Boxing " you can't beat the " Champ " with a tie.. you have to take the " Belt ! ";)

Its not a secret for me. Its my prefered type:D

Who knows
 

I wouldn't mind who knows. I know what I like and that's that.

i love to show what i like
 

this is a picture of me wearing a t shirt in Cap d'Agde
europe's largest fuck camp at least the nudist part of it
is it obvious enough ?
nicole

B a b
 

sorry i forgot to mention what B A B means
blanche a Blacks ;)

From what I've seen and learned is that white women that have their own money could care less what you think of them. Its the younger (and somewhat older ones) white chicks that still care about their bullshit social circles and parents and if total strangers approve of their relationship while out in public. Married chicks (outside of cuckolding and swinging and rightfully so because their married) will be reluntant to express liking for black men because a lot of them are stay at home moms that depend on hubby's money. So she can't mess that up. That and college chicks that depend on dad to pay their tuition will somewhat hide their liking for black men(even though college is where most white chicks start fucking blk dudes). I had partners tell me when in college they had white girls that they were fucking tell them "I wanna really date you but my dad will be pissed, and he pays for my schooling" ya know. So women that have their own shit they really don't give a fuck and you can kiss their asses if you dnt like them dating blk men.

In reality, swingers don't want anyone to know they are swingers, no matter if they are having fun with black or white or Asian or whoever. It's just something they prefer to enjoy together as a married couple and don't want the world to know. And most swingers are happily married couples, very much in love, and aren't shallow and only worry about the others money. While there are shallow people out there in all walks of life the vast majority of women out there are not bad people and only worried about their husband providing for them. Most women nowadays have jobs and are fully capable of supporting themselves.

Single women in this day and time,if their concern is romance and love, aren't thinking about who likes it if they are dating someone they love. White women are with black guys everywhere and black women are with white guys as well. Women are very capable of making their own decisions and are very independent and proud.

So to answer the question, most people like to keep their sexual affairs private. It isn't because of embarrassment of who they are with. It's just something most everyone prefers.

Yeah this mentality is still around down here.

True and like I said there are shallow people in all walks of life, but the majority of us are not that way. The majority of people are good people just wanting to enjoy life. Some focus on the negativity instead of the greater positive. Just depends on who you are and your personality.

This just shows the ignorance of racism especially more documented in the deep south. There are famous celebrity white women who have dated black men that wouldn't give a lot of these redneck guys in the south the time of day. Think about it, Kim Bassinger(former wife of Alec Baldwin) dated Prince. World renowned singer Sheena Easton dated Prince. Soccer Champion Hope Solo has a black husband. Supermodel Heidi Klum was married to Seal. Nancy Sinatra once dated David Ruffin of the Temptations. Madonna has dated several NBA players such as Dennis Rodman, Brian Shaw, etc. Carmen Electra has dated Prince and was briefly married to Dennis Rodman and the list goes on. Would any of the aforementioned white women give any of these wrinkled neck, inarticulate, buffoonish racist inbreds from the south morsels of toe jam if they were hungry? Don't think so.

After being widowed and then introduced to black men by my daugher, I told 2 white men friends that I was being used by them. Unlike others mentioned here, this information made them even more interested in me--I suspect they are attracted to my apparent "sluttiness"

Letting others know of attraction to black men
 

After being widowed and then introduced to black men by my daugher, I told 2 white men friends that I was being used by them. Unlike others mentioned here, this information made them even more interested in me--I suspect they are attracted to my apparent "sluttiness"

Queen of Spades proudly tattooed on my ankle for all to see !!! Nuff said ...;)

I date black men openly and I don't care wut any1 sez. I've lived in more than 9 states & been to all but like 3-4.... Had white men wanting to date me, find out I've dated a black man b4 & stop calling me. I've had black women see me with a black man & corner me in bathrooms trying to interrogate or intimidate me about it. I am going to date, fuck, marry whom ever I like & couldn't care less the feelings of anyone..... I have grown children, they know & accept it..... both of my kids have dated outside their race. So, it's 2013 & people need to b more concerned about their own situations & not everyone elses! I luv chocolate skin/ dick ;)

Feel you 100%
 

Been there too!

Another point....
 

I am often approached in public places by black men. Do they know by my smile, by my reaction, or by my body language that I am attracted to black men? Even when I am with my husband black men stare/smile at me as if they know the I am open to sex with black men.....

Secret or not
 

We being a bit older than most here and also being from a small (back then) coastal town. There were very few black families around. We didn't have racial barriers that i knew of. But dating was not openly done. It was during a sleep over for my 18th B-day my girlfriends all gathered at my older sisters house. A girl friends older brother and friend of my sister dropped her off. He hung out for a bit. We had poloroid camera then and were taking pictures of everything including us trying to look sexing in our pajama's. At some point during the night curiousity, black berry brandy, and truth or dare taken into account i found myself laying on my sisters bed and a 25 year old black mans penis no BBC making me feel like a virgin again.. Afterwards we didn't talk about it much in public. I never told any future boy friends or even my husband about it. Some 25 years later my husband "talked" me into trying a black man. i haven't looked back since. I guess to answer your question more planly I have two children by black lovers, You can't hide that..:D

i love black men
 

Hello all,i live in adrian,mi 49221...i got turned on to black men because my hubby wanted me to try interacial. i was raised stricked catholic and to be loyal and true to one man my hubby. ive been married twenty years now and ive been with over 400 black men and love it. after the forst year or so the regulars i would meet werent even required to use a condom n e more. my hubby use to be present but now we tell all bbc's that hes at work when hes really in the next room. The bbc's seem to pound me harder and longer when they think were alone. Lol i put ads pn craigslist and aff to get men. im 53 and still have three regulars(bbc) each week. black men are great lovers and usually very sweet men. And i love them all. susan a.k.a eagertopleaz

eagertopleaz again
 

Forgot to mention in my earlier thread....i also had a three inch spade tattooed right above my pussy. See my pics.

At first I kept it a secret from everybody, until I had my first long term relationship with a black man, even then I didn't tell anyone for the first few months... I was afraid of everyone's reaction, especially my family (I was just recently divorced and have a teenage son) When the relationship became serious, I decided to just be brave and "come out"... everyone was surprised, some even shocked, but I didn't get any really bad reactions from my friends and family. None of them expected to see me date a black man, and they didn't hide their surprise, but none of them said anything bad about it. Yes some white men get really "turned off" by it, some stop calling as soon as they find out, but... the way I see it, its too bad for them!
Now I fall in the category that openly dates black men (although my current bf is white), and would gladly marry one if I meet the right guy.

good for you :)

I'm married, and so can't really tell too many people that I have ever slept with someone other than my husband. A few close friends know, but that's it. As far as colour goes, I judge the man, not the colour. I have met potential lovers in public for the first time, as a precaution. I have no issues sitting in a coffee shop or restaurant, lost in conversation with my date. But do I want to share anything further with the world at large? Nope.

If I were single, though, I wouldn't care. If I were in a relationship with a guy, and it was serious enough to introduce him to family and friends, the fact that he's dark wouldn't matter at all.