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doggieismystyle 11-01-2012 02:49 PM

White women are you secretly attracted to black men or do youcare if anyone knows?
 
This subject came up during a recent convo that I had. It seems that some women are attracted to and or fuck black men but dont want the world to know and of course there are others that openly date and marry black men. What category do you fall into and why?

Had a white gf back in the day who told me that she stopped telling the white boys that she dated after me that she had ever been with a black male.... She said that the reaction was usually negative somehow or the guy simply stopped calling. What the hell?

vikkiem126 11-01-2012 11:40 PM

I been attracted to black men ever since I can remember. Where I live is kinda a redneck area and most girls won't go with a black guy or keep it secret if they do. I never kept it secret and most white boys wouldn't have anything to do with me. One white boy called me tainted meat because i was dating a black guy at the time. I eventually married a white man but he knows all about my past and he has never felt threatened by it or anything.

I can tell you from my experience more white women are attracted to black men than will ever admit to being. There's still that taboo about white dating black I guess. But I know around here there are more white women and some white men dating and marrying black men or women than what used to happen.

Canadian Black Breeder 11-02-2012 04:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by vikkiem126 (Post 44936)
I One white boy called me tainted meat because i was dating a black guy at the time.

What they're trying to say to them selves is the translation: Damn, she's been opened up by a big black cock, now i can't get in there and feel anything cause my lil ass dick is too small LMMFAO

Mustang Alley 11-02-2012 05:23 AM

Lol CBB~~
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Canadian Black Breeder (Post 44947)
What they're trying to say to them selves is the translation: Damn, she's been opened up by a big black cock, now i can't get in there and feel anything cause my lil ass dick is too small LMMFAO





Lol CBB, you might be right but I also know of one instance where a white guy had slept with or possibly slept with a 17 year old blk girl at a drunken party and everyone that knew him thought of him as being "tainted" after that. :(





Canadian Black Breeder 11-02-2012 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 44950)



Lol CBB, you might be right but I also know of one instance where a white guy had slept with or possibly slept with a 17 year old blk girl at a drunken party and everyone that knew him thought of him as being "tainted" after that. :(





Damn, seriously? :confused:

Mustang Alley 11-03-2012 08:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canadian Black Breeder (Post 44960)
Damn, seriously? :confused:


Sad but true....I know of this because I dated him when I was 16 years old and his family and friends (yes his own family) made sure he filled me in so I could decide to date him or not.. They actually stood in the distance while he told me about it.. I was like OMG are your friends and family crazy??? :rolleyes: But you gotta remember I'm in the deep south.

ThickNiggaDick 11-03-2012 10:38 AM

Don't You Know?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 44980)

Sad but true....I know of this because I dated him when I was 16 years old and his family and friends (yes his own family) made sure he filled me in so I could decide to date him or not.. They actually stood in the distance while he told me about it.. I was like OMG are your friends and family crazy??? :rolleyes: But you gotta remember I'm in the deep south.

Don't you know that if a white person has sex with a "colored", then that will change the make up of the chemistry of your blood :( ;) :D

Canadian Black Breeder 11-04-2012 05:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 44980)

Sad but true....I know of this because I dated him when I was 16 years old and his family and friends (yes his own family) made sure he filled me in so I could decide to date him or not.. They actually stood in the distance while he told me about it.. I was like OMG are your friends and family crazy??? :rolleyes: But you gotta remember I'm in the deep south.

Hmm and to think that i actually thought that evolution had arrived in the south

Mustang Alley 11-04-2012 08:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Canadian Black Breeder (Post 45011)
Hmm and to think that i actually thought that evolution had arrived in the south



Well that was 20 years ago.. not saying things haven't stayed the same in some places... think thats why IR is so Taboo down here...

Waving up there at you TND when I say Taboo and DOWN HERE ya know in the south.. lol.. ;)

Sorry Doggie, didn't mean hijack your thread..

To answer your question, I pick and choose who knows... my close people that is.. beyond that I don't care who knows...


Becky Luvsit 11-04-2012 10:33 AM

Its a secrect that everybody knows...LOL...

Mustang Alley 11-04-2012 05:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Becky Luvsit (Post 45025)
Its a secrect that everybody knows...LOL...





Lol. I feel ya on that one.


Mandingo the Barbie Lover 11-04-2012 07:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 44980)

Sad but true....I know of this because I dated him when I was 16 years old and his family and friends (yes his own family) made sure he filled me in so I could decide to date him or not.. They actually stood in the distance while he told me about it.. I was like OMG are your friends and family crazy??? :rolleyes: But you gotta remember I'm in the deep south.

Damn. I'm in Memphis. Where are u down here in the South?

doggieismystyle 11-05-2012 03:11 AM

Surprising
 
No prob Mustang......

Surprised that no other ladies have touched on this subject. Maybe it goes without saying that most white women want to keep this a secet. Not sure....

Wondering also the flip side to this; any brothas out there that feel compelled to keep this a secret from friends and family?

Have met at least one bourgeois ass brotha who dumped a chick because of family pressure and the knowledge that his family would NEVER accept his marrying a white woman.....

I know shame may keep most of you from responding.... it is what it is though right?

Mustang Alley 11-05-2012 05:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mandingo the Barbie Lover (Post 45039)
Damn. I'm in Memphis. Where are u down here in the South?


MS, down on the gulf.. ;)

Damn, first Memphis had Elvis, then TayBear and now Mandingo... Memphis has it going on up there!!!

curiouserandcuriouser 11-05-2012 02:52 PM

Memphis also had Otis R., and Al Green, and of course FedEx. My favorite Memphis son is TaylorBear! So I guess Memphis is all about having a package and knowing how to deliver it ;)

perkypumpkinssss 11-05-2012 07:54 PM

I'm open about it... I'm with the type of man I like.. I won't apologize for that...if people don't like to see a white girl kissing a black guy,, then they shouldn't be looking.

tx girl 11-06-2012 05:13 AM

I grew up in a small rural southern economically segregated but racially integrated town in the 60’s. With my sexual development came my love and lust for blacks though the taboo was ever present. I easily and willingly succumbed to their advances. Well boys love to brag about their conquests and I was soon labeled with derogatory names I need not spell out. I lived with the names and hatefulness throughout middle and high school. Blacks considered me their party girl, their pass around good time while whites thought me to be an easy lay. Subsequently I never had any real steady boyfriends. When I graduated and moved out on my own I thought I had learned a valuable lesson, be discreet, don’t upset the status quo. Today I feel I’ve been conditioned over all those years to be a very private person in regards to my preference for men. I am, however, happy to see that things have changed for today’s generation.

doggieismystyle 11-06-2012 08:20 AM

Hmmm.....My thoughts thus far
 
In general, in many places, yes, people dont even blink when they see an interracial couple. How ever, depending upon what circles one frequents, the disdain for interracial couplings is heavily prevalent yet rarely voiced publically. In other words, aint shit changed for many people when it comes to this topic.

Case in point, black women still HATE to see a good looking and or affluent brotha with a white woman, hell any kind of woman other than another black woman.

I have to make this point as well.... Sure black males, especially American black males, are much beloved by women around the world.... But, many women will fuck us for fun, but wont be seen with us publically one on one, even if its platonic. Very ironic that you ladies would love us privately and yet deny us totally otherwise for fear of what neighbors, friends, family will think.

Yes I am fanning the flames with this message. Just hoping to generate some honest discussion about this topic. Quit being shy ya'll lol.

yluap90 11-06-2012 06:08 PM

pussy
 
i luv it so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
luv to eat :it & fuck it all day long!!!!!!!!!!! any nice lookin women out there that want the ultimate orgasm,-call on me;cause i'll eat you til you cum,baby!!!!!!!
i also have an 8 inch dick that needs to cleaned off-it's got some white goo on the end of it & i don't know what it is!! it's awful sticky.

amyamezzz 11-07-2012 01:00 AM

I used to keep it to myself, but it just got to hard anymore. No some of my family, friends, and coworkers know. Its much easier now.

texas_couple10 11-13-2012 05:19 PM

Some things change and some stay the same
 
We are a couple, and been involved in an interracial relationship for over 6 years now. She is Asian and I am caucasian/white. However, while in the the south (Texas in this case), we limit ourselves mostly to big cities which have a broad mix of cultures. There, race is mostly inconsequential to us.

With that said, the lifestyle of sharing her with other men is a behind closed doors thing for us with anyone (guy or girl of any background).

---------
My experience as a child is that the more rural you go, and when you combine that with a less educated group of rural people, you may encounter a fear of the unknown which manifests itself as racism to the untrained eye.


But it also may be that people move to the city simply because they are more tolerant and open and enjoy the mix of cultures.

sheLIKESdenzel 11-19-2012 06:01 PM

My wife several years ago told me that she liked Denzel Washington. Around the time we first started dating, a Denzel movie I hadn't seen, she had on DVD. I would show her my DVD collection and encouraged her to watch movies I had liked. She really wanted me to watch the Denzel movie. It was good too, like she said. The one where he is the psycho cop.

Now you don't just generally say, "I like so-and-so actor/actress" speaking only of their acting ability. Usually when you say you like an actor/actress of the opposite sex, it's about the total package no? It'd be about the acting, physical attraction, the role played, or whatever number of things?

Incidentally, she did-not like the role he played in that particular movie. I forget the name of it.

Mustang Alley 11-19-2012 06:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sheLIKESdenzel (Post 45640)
My wife several years ago told me that she liked Denzel Washington. Around the time we first started dating, a Denzel movie I hadn't seen, she had on DVD. I would show her my DVD collection and encouraged her to watch movies I had liked. She really wanted me to watch the Denzel movie. It was good too, like she said. The one where he is the psycho cop.

Now you don't just generally say, "I like so-and-so actor/actress" speaking only of their acting ability. Usually when you say you like an actor/actress of the opposite sex, it's about the total package no? It'd be about the acting, physical attraction, the role played, or whatever number of things?

Incidentally, she did-not like the role he played in that particular movie. I forget the name of it.





I really REALLY think you're grasping for straws over there. Ya Trying to find anything that could possibly mean that she likes blk men and If this is your only evidence then I would say that' its pretty weak as far as evidence goes.

FYI... I've said the same thing about Johnny Depp but that doesn't mean I wanna fck him or a white guy, well other than my husband of course..




sheLIKESdenzel 11-19-2012 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 45643)



I really REALLY think you're grasping for straws over there. Ya Trying to find anything that could possibly mean that she likes blk men and If this is your only evidence then I would say that' its pretty weak as far as evidence goes.

FYI... I've said the same thing about Johnny Depp but that doesn't mean I wanna fck him or a white guy, well other than my husband of course..




You are taking things a bit out of context. This was a several-years-ago scenario. A lot has developed since then.

alyna 11-19-2012 07:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sheLIKESdenzel (Post 45640)
My wife several years ago told me that she liked Denzel Washington. Around the time we first started dating, a Denzel movie I hadn't seen, she had on DVD. I would show her my DVD collection and encouraged her to watch movies I had liked. She really wanted me to watch the Denzel movie. It was good too, like she said. The one where he is the psycho cop.

Now you don't just generally say, "I like so-and-so actor/actress" speaking only of their acting ability. Usually when you say you like an actor/actress of the opposite sex, it's about the total package no? It'd be about the acting, physical attraction, the role played, or whatever number of things?

Incidentally, she did-not like the role he played in that particular movie. I forget the name of it.

Denzel Washington as a psycho cop? You probably mean the 2001 movie "Training Day".

So uhm, for how you put it if I like the work by actors like:
- Kevin James
- Jack Black
- Jonah Hill

It's not because they make funny movies, are believable in the role, and good actors. But because I want to fuck chubby white men?

It's not that I like Peter Dinklage because he's awesome as Tyrion Lannister and makes one of the coolest characters of the books also one of the greatest characters in the TV adaption, but that I want to fuck midgets??

Your logic is a bit off, I think.

sheLIKESdenzel 11-19-2012 07:48 PM

And Denzel IS one of those romantic-lead heart-throb type actors.

sheLIKESdenzel 11-19-2012 08:02 PM

Denzel Washington as a psycho cop? You probably mean the 2001 movie "Training Day".

So uhm, for how you put it if I like the work by actors like:
- Kevin James
- Jack Black
- Jonah Hill

It's not because they make funny movies, are believable in the role, and good actors. But because I want to fuck chubby white men?




Yes, that was the film. No, I would never impose so much as to tell you or anyone, what it is that you/they, should like...

alyna 11-19-2012 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sheLIKESdenzel (Post 45647)
And Denzel IS one of those romantic-lead heart-throb type actors.

When I think of movies like:
- A Soldier's Story;
- Glory;
- Crimson Tide;
- Virtuosity:
- The Siege;
- The Taking of Pelham 123 (remake);
- Training Day;
- Malcolm X;
- The Manchurian Candidate (remake);
- The Book of Eli;

romantic heart-throb is not the first thing that comes to mind.

blacked 11-20-2012 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alyna (Post 45649)
When I think of movies like:
- A Soldier's Story;
- Glory;
- Crimson Tide;
- Virtuosity:
- The Siege;
- The Taking of Pelham 123 (remake);
- Training Day;
- Malcolm X;
- The Manchurian Candidate (remake);
- The Book of Eli;

romantic heart-throb is not the first thing that comes to mind.

ha yeah, a fucking useless monotone smart ass one dimensional actor is a better fit

strange1 11-20-2012 12:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by texas_couple10 (Post 45410)
We are a couple, and been involved in an interracial relationship for over 6 years now. She is Asian and I am caucasian/white. However, while in the the south (Texas in this case), we limit ourselves mostly to big cities which have a broad mix of cultures. There, race is mostly inconsequential to us.

With that said, the lifestyle of sharing her with other men is a behind closed doors thing for us with anyone (guy or girl of any background).

---------
My experience as a child is that the more rural you go, and when you combine that with a less educated group of rural people, you may encounter a fear of the unknown which manifests itself as racism to the untrained eye.


But it also may be that people move to the city simply because they are more tolerant and open and enjoy the mix of cultures.

Living in a city has nothing to do with better education....

sheLIKESdenzel 11-20-2012 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by blacked (Post 45688)
ha yeah, a fucking useless monotone smart ass one dimensional actor is a better fit

I actually did see a comedy skit where black men were discussing their frustrations with their women. "Why can't you be more like Denzel?" was what they got sick of hearing all the time. lol

Meredith_D 11-21-2012 02:57 PM

Everybody knows that I date black guys - I've had black boyfriends - but not everybody knows the extent of my involvement in the "lifestyle".

doggieismystyle 11-22-2012 06:08 AM

I think...
 
I think that the ladies who dont give a fuck if anybody knows will say so here.... the rest, who dont advertise their love for black dick to the world, wont say anything. Not even here. They are too ashamed......

marriedwhitewoman 11-23-2012 03:01 AM

marriedwhitewoman
 
There is no greater taboo, nor more wonderful lust, than a black man and married white woman together.

alyna 11-23-2012 12:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marriedwhitewoman (Post 45794)
There is no greater taboo, nor more wonderful lust, than a black man and married white woman together.

And when the white woman is married to said black man? Where's the big taboo then?

sweetnsinful85 11-23-2012 07:06 PM

No
 
I don't really care who knows.

usnluv 11-25-2012 11:45 AM

Open
 
For us, we are still evolving as a loving cuckold couple. Having three children prevented us from pursuing our deepest desires. When our youngest moved out, we moved on. That was two years ago. Since that time the deeper into our lifestyle we go, the less we care who knows. We do not flaunt our lifestyle to our children, but I think they know. I think it is a don't ask don't tell type of situation.

Most of my wife's girlfriends know. She has told them all. A few are very curious and I think even envious of her ability to have these men, and of our deep love for one another.

As for public displays of affection. That is a MUST for my wife. She loves showing her submission to a beautiful, strong black man. If I am present, all the better for her. My wife loves me. We are best friends, lovers, and true soul mates. I accept her desires, and her NEED.

ebonis 11-26-2012 11:25 AM

that is..
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Becky Luvsit (Post 45025)
Its a secrect that everybody knows...LOL...

The best answer Becky! Cheers..!!

Mustang Alley 11-26-2012 02:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ebonis (Post 45904)
the best answer becky! Cheers..!!



eb!!!!!!!!!!! 😊


ebonis 11-29-2012 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 45907)


eb!!!!!!!!!!! 😊


Ms. Alley Pants!


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