02-11-2013, 10:30 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2007
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We all have a bit of racist in us
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Originally Posted by kimjo
One thing that I have thought quite hard about is whether I am basically just another racist deep down. Albeit discriminating positively but discriminating nonetheless. Skin colour is important to me, as is attitude and body shape - the sort of attitude and body only black men seem to have. Of course personality is vital too but at the end of the day I have many white men as friends but haven't dated anybody who wasn't black for over 3 years now.
I wouldn't say I'm overtly an attention seeker. I do like attention, but not particularly from my family. My parents are fine with the men they have met (of which there have only been two I've been serious enough about to introduce) though I have a feeling this is more to do with politeness than with genuine joy.
I like kissing in public (though not inapropriately, say, in the middle of the town centre - "hey, look at us" - but then I wouldn't do that with anybody) and I get turned on particularly when I see people looking at me with a boyfriend and then turning away when they catch my eye. You just know what they are thinking. I wouldn't say the taboo is the biggest turn on but I guess it is part of the package.
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I see you as a serious person in your choosing black men as oppose to white men for dating. Public kissing for you is a turn-on which in a sense is a message you send out telling others the level of your sexuality. When a black man and a white woman are seen in public holding hands or kissing, the message is clear, I am fucking this guy and it draws attention from others and rightly when you catch their eyes, they swiftly look away. The brashness of your publicity has dismantled once again the taboo about interracial
relationships and it's good. Power in the bedroom should also be demonstrated in public, that's the one and sure way to broaden the level of acceptance and to remove that old taboo about colour. A white woman taking her black boyfriend home is a bold move and believe me it has a profound effect on her parents, especially if they had little or no contact with black people. For one the father always feels protected towards his daughter and can be resentful although appearing pleasant. The mother, approaches the situation with caution, constantly reminding her husband not to upset their daughter and let her have time to exploit the phase she is going through. Load of old nonsense, the mother herself is on the look out, she sees her daughter doing something she was deprived of and whole hardheartedly approves. I won't go any further, but you can imagine what will eventually occur. I take my hat off to you Kim and where did you say you live. Ha,Ha.
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