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[Danny Muscular Black]

Something I've been wondering for a while & if people have similar opinions or views! There's been a lot of shitty threads recently so hoping this is something people can be honest with!

Firstly I need to abolish a myth! Eyebrows ain't just raised by a white family about an interracial relationship, my parents were more than pissed off the first time they saw me with a white girl. Now although I don't do things to against family I do actually kinda like the attention & banter this causes!

So what I'm asking is, "Is the biggest turn on for interracial couples, the attention it attracts & the potential trouble it causes?"

I'm a self pre claimed attention seeker & vain. So yeah most the women I date help this image, I like a woman to turn heads, dress slutty, be confident & hog the spot-light! I love kissing in public, I make a big effort to make sure we're seen! I never whisper when talking, I like being overheard!, I prefer older women its a dileberate choice, for my taste & the attention it attracts.

Truthfully I only date white women! And I think the taboo is the biggest turn on, the "Forbidden Fruit" do people date outside their race for love of the person or because of the attention it causes. I don't think I've ever loved any woman but I love fucking and dateing older, blonde slutty dressed women!

[newblkman22]

Originally Posted by Danny Muscular Black

Something I've been wondering for a while & if people have similar opinions or views! There's been a lot of shitty threads recently so hoping this is something people can be honest with!

Firstly I need to abolish a myth! Eyebrows ain't just raised by a white family about an interracial relationship, my parents were more than pissed off the first time they saw me with a white girl. Now although I don't do things to against family I do actually kinda like the attention & banter this causes!

So what I'm asking is, "Is the biggest turn on for interracial couples, the attention it attracts & the potential trouble it causes?"

I'm a self pre claimed attention seeker & vain. So yeah most the women I date help this image, I like a woman to turn heads, dress slutty, be confident & hog the spot-light! I love kissing in public, I make a big effort to make sure we're seen! I never whisper when talking, I like being overheard!, I prefer older women its a dileberate choice, for my taste & the attention it attracts.

Truthfully I only date white women! And I think the taboo is the biggest turn on, the "Forbidden Fruit" do people date outside their race for love of the person or because of the attention it causes. I don't think I've ever loved any woman but I love fucking and dateing older, blonde slutty dressed women!

I really don't care that much for attention. I am however attracted to white women. I don't do it for taboo or anything I just date and like who I am attracted to and that happens to be sexy mature white women.

[Mandingo the Barbie Lover]

Bruh sounds like you are dating white chicks for the wrong reasons. You can add this one to shitty thread list. If you listen to people who critisize interracial dating they say people do it for similar reasons that you stated. I take it that the women you date are trash bags because if a classy women knew that you were dating her for bullshit like attention and turning heads, she probably wouldn't fuck with you. Its 2012 and this "forbitten fruit" shit is so early 1900's. So no the attraction is not about attention and saying "look at me I'm with a white girl". Are some people going against their upbringing? Yeah. But its not for attention.

[Danny Muscular Black]

Originally Posted by Mandingo the Barbie Lover

Bruh sounds like you are dating white chicks for the wrong reasons. You can add this one to shitty thread list. If you listen to people who critisize interracial dating they say people do it for similar reasons that you stated. I take it that the women you date are trash bags because if a classy women knew that you were dating her for bullshit like attention and turning heads, she probably wouldn't fuck with you. Its 2012 and this "forbitten fruit" shit is so early 1900's. So no the attraction is not about attention and saying "look at me I'm with a white girl". Are some people going against their upbringing? Yeah. But its not for attention.

not to sure you actually understood my point, cause your wrong on so many points! its hard to explain but trust me everything is for attention. even you, your profile reads "white women who love big nigger dick" isnt that just another form of attention? also ive dated quite a range of women and "trash-bags" is something im yet to date, also its 2013.

but the point i was trying to make is THERE is still taboo, 1887, 1960, 2013 or even 2055 thats my point, first impressions count when you start dateing someone or if they just catch your eye. and in alot of cases people in interracial couples do it for the attention cause thats the TURN ON, being noticed!

[frenchslut]

you have understood perfectly the reasons for a white woman, especially around my age
(51) are attracted to BBC : I love to be slutty and have a younger BBC show everybody they 'own' me even if it the idea tat somebody that knows me as a regular woman is scarry OR MAYBE JUST BECAUSE IT IS WHAT I WISH

talking about being dressed to please i hope you like that dress
it is in a normal club so i had to remain discrete

[kimjo]

One thing that I have thought quite hard about is whether I am basically just another racist deep down. Albeit discriminating positively but discriminating nonetheless. Skin colour is important to me, as is attitude and body shape - the sort of attitude and body only black men seem to have. Of course personality is vital too but at the end of the day I have many white men as friends but haven't dated anybody who wasn't black for over 3 years now.

I wouldn't say I'm overtly an attention seeker. I do like attention, but not particularly from my family. My parents are fine with the men they have met (of which there have only been two I've been serious enough about to introduce) though I have a feeling this is more to do with politeness than with genuine joy.

I like kissing in public (though not inapropriately, say, in the middle of the town centre - "hey, look at us" - but then I wouldn't do that with anybody) and I get turned on particularly when I see people looking at me with a boyfriend and then turning away when they catch my eye. You just know what they are thinking. I wouldn't say the taboo is the biggest turn on but I guess it is part of the package.

[howieboy]

Originally Posted by kimjo

One thing that I have thought quite hard about is whether I am basically just another racist deep down. Albeit discriminating positively but discriminating nonetheless. Skin colour is important to me, as is attitude and body shape - the sort of attitude and body only black men seem to have. Of course personality is vital too but at the end of the day I have many white men as friends but haven't dated anybody who wasn't black for over 3 years now.

I wouldn't say I'm overtly an attention seeker. I do like attention, but not particularly from my family. My parents are fine with the men they have met (of which there have only been two I've been serious enough about to introduce) though I have a feeling this is more to do with politeness than with genuine joy.

I like kissing in public (though not inapropriately, say, in the middle of the town centre - "hey, look at us" - but then I wouldn't do that with anybody) and I get turned on particularly when I see people looking at me with a boyfriend and then turning away when they catch my eye. You just know what they are thinking. I wouldn't say the taboo is the biggest turn on but I guess it is part of the package.

I see you as a serious person in your choosing black men as oppose to white men for dating. Public kissing for you is a turn-on which in a sense is a message you send out telling others the level of your sexuality. When a black man and a white woman are seen in public holding hands or kissing, the message is clear, I am fucking this guy and it draws attention from others and rightly when you catch their eyes, they swiftly look away. The brashness of your publicity has dismantled once again the taboo about interracial
relationships and it's good. Power in the bedroom should also be demonstrated in public, that's the one and sure way to broaden the level of acceptance and to remove that old taboo about colour. A white woman taking her black boyfriend home is a bold move and believe me it has a profound effect on her parents, especially if they had little or no contact with black people. For one the father always feels protected towards his daughter and can be resentful although appearing pleasant. The mother, approaches the situation with caution, constantly reminding her husband not to upset their daughter and let her have time to exploit the phase she is going through. Load of old nonsense, the mother herself is on the look out, she sees her daughter doing something she was deprived of and whole hardheartedly approves. I won't go any further, but you can imagine what will eventually occur. I take my hat off to you Kim and where did you say you live. Ha,Ha.

[bigtallbull]

Originally Posted by kimjo

One thing that I have thought quite hard about is whether I am basically just another racist deep down. Albeit discriminating positively but discriminating nonetheless. Skin colour is important to me, as is attitude and body shape - the sort of attitude and body only black men seem to have. Of course personality is vital too but at the end of the day I have many white men as friends but haven't dated anybody who wasn't black for over 3 years now.

I wouldn't say I'm overtly an attention seeker. I do like attention, but not particularly from my family. My parents are fine with the men they have met (of which there have only been two I've been serious enough about to introduce) though I have a feeling this is more to do with politeness than with genuine joy.

I like kissing in public (though not inapropriately, say, in the middle of the town centre - "hey, look at us" - but then I wouldn't do that with anybody) and I get turned on particularly when I see people looking at me with a boyfriend and then turning away when they catch my eye. You just know what they are thinking. I wouldn't say the taboo is the biggest turn on but I guess it is part of the package.

i do give lots of attentions to white female i love. have you tried bigi bigi style ? those styles only could be done with extremly lust bitches. i love bitches, wild bitches, heels

[Mandingo the Barbie Lover]

Originally Posted by Danny Muscular Black

not to sure you actually understood my point, cause your wrong on so many points! its hard to explain but trust me everything is for attention. even you, your profile reads "white women who love big nigger dick" isnt that just another form of attention? also ive dated quite a range of women and "trash-bags" is something im yet to date, also its 2013.

but the point i was trying to make is THERE is still taboo, 1887, 1960, 2013 or even 2055 thats my point, first impressions count when you start dateing someone or if they just catch your eye. and in alot of cases people in interracial couples do it for the attention cause thats the TURN ON, being noticed!

No, playa I understood this "plz look at me I'm with a white girl" nonsense quite clearly. Maybe your an older blk dude who couldn't look that way once upon a time and that's why u have these motives. How is saying "white women who love big nigger dick" attention seeking? Wtf? Its not as if I'm out in public saying "Hey everybody, I love white women that love nigger dick". I'm talking about dirty talk in the PRIVACY of the bedroom. So u date classy women that just dress trashy? Ok gotcha. When you are out in public seeking attention with your "classy but dress trashy" chick, you feeding into every "blk men date trashy white women" stereotypes out there. I don't even want a trashy dressing chick unless she's being "stank" for me when I'm coming over to tear that ass up. And like I said playboy, if these classy women knew what your motivation was for going out in public with them, trust me they wouldn't fuck with for to long. Just ask a classy white chick that dates interracially.

[amyamezzz]

when i first started it was def. to piss off my dad. the way he acted always increased my curiosity. My mother tried it as well which he doesnt know to this day. I dont mind the attention now, but I typically dont always look for it either.