Many women like myself joined for the online community. I have to keep my personal and professional life separate and maintain a certain persona in public. Even though I indulge in my personal life as much as possible, the need to keep things separate makes it hard. The online community here and the anonymity is the reason why I joined. I want to have a conversation or discuss things, but almost all the stuff in my inbox are questions about my looks, wanting sex or wanting pics. These were not the reasons why I joined. Since I have joined I have had only two men contact me just to chat about something that wasn't about fucking me (well some weren't clear with words like just "Hi" which I ignore because I don't know what you want) And I enjoyed those conversations on a variety of topics (movies, my job or his job, my personal life or his personal life, lifestyle choices, you know just chatting to get to know me and for me to know him) which was the main purpose of my joining. Maybe one day I'll meet them but that is not the reason I am here.
If more of the guys were gentlemen and respected my personal privacy desires I would contact them more often. But most of them don't and I ignore them

In defense for the guys.
 

Good chance that the reason that you're getting messages like that, is because of your user name. You branded yourself as a slut. Basically the guys are coming at you like that bc they see you as a slut. Kinda like you get what you portray. Even if your post are basic chit chat, it's your user name that guys see first. Soon as they see the word "slut" their mind goes in a different direction.

If its normal chit chat (which I love) that your looking for then I suggest that you start a new account with a new username.

Ikr
 

Totally agree 💋

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I keep a very close nit circle. Just bc your on my friends list doesn't mean that we gonna get down like that. Besides not many (not bragging, just stating a fact) can play the way I like to play. Simply can't can't be bored with mundane sex. So that narrows the playing field!' Plus I choose not to spread myself around, hell I would never get off my backside if I slept with everyone on my friends list.

All my female friends had better watch out. Im gunning for you. Lol. :p


It's very VERY rare for me to send a friends request. Now only accept those that I've personally verified. Geesh and I just deleted over 600 friends. Still not possible to sleep with the remainder. Lol Plus I have my cuck buddies *waves* no sex there.

So true!!!

Yep...
 

I will say it again: whatever your intentions are, put them on your profile so that way no one gets confused about why you're here!

Example: If you have chat/email only or anything gay or your profile I wont even waste my time or yours.

Yes us guys could probably be more "sweet" in our approach to the ladies here.... But honestly, most of us hate the bullshit games we have to play IRL to get laid, so we are much more straight forward via Internet. It's great when it works.... No overpriced dinners, boring ass romantic comedies, and pretending to like your snotty ass kid(s). Plus I still get the pussy???? Hellzzzzzzz yeah! Funny, (perhaps a bit sad) but true. I'm guilty. Not all the fellas here are like that though and I can't speak for all of us.

I can say that I will be much more careful when adding peeps to my list in the future. I will also be unloading all of the dingle berries currently on there who never respond to emails. Like my old Chinese grandmother used to say, No talky, get to walky. LOL

Dem Bones
 

Hey wait a second . . . there aren't any bones :)!

Now did you thirsty bastards read her comment? Act like you didn't just discover that you had a dick then you guys would have better luck meeting women here.