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[doggieismystyle]

I think most of the women/couples are here just to look and fantasize.... I guess that's not a problem if they would just put that out there on their profile. I want to meet and fuck; it's right there in my profile too so nobody can get that twisted.

[JandGinSD]

Some are on these sorts of sites to genuinely meet people to pursue further real meetings. Some just want to be part of the larger community. It would be unrealistic to think you'll be meeting people in real time who are thousands of miles away. But the lifestyle is about getting together on some level with others with the same socially relaxed outlook. For us, locals are potential for go beyond that. But that is potential. Meeting soemtime at a public lifestyle event or whatever is comfortable for all involved can assess such chemistry, Sending a message about getting together to screw is not too forward to some perhaps, but to many it is presumptuous and maybe even desperate, neither being attractive. There are those in fantasyland, others still figuring out what they want (though genuine), others playing games and wasting time, and others just being either particular in their selections of playmates or just uncomfortable in progressing on that in cyberspace (a generational thing usually). But the two mosst commonly suspected are the ganme players and the sorts who want it but are like dogs chasing the ice cream truck with no idea what to do when it does stop in the street. People are just complicated and we see a weird sliver of a facade for each (including all of ourselves) on these sites. Hooking up might not be everyone's agenda, at least not for all of the folks they befriend.

[Saxecat]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

Some are on these sorts of sites to genuinely meet people to pursue further real meetings. Some just want to be part of the larger community. It would be unrealistic to think you'll be meeting people in real time who are thousands of miles away. But the lifestyle is about getting together on some level with others with the same socially relaxed outlook. For us, locals are potential for go beyond that. But that is potential. Meeting soemtime at a public lifestyle event or whatever is comfortable for all involved can assess such chemistry, Sending a message about getting together to screw is not too forward to some perhaps, but to many it is presumptuous and maybe even desperate, neither being attractive. There are those in fantasyland, others still figuring out what they want (though genuine), others playing games and wasting time, and others just being either particular in their selections of playmates or just uncomfortable in progressing on that in cyberspace (a generational thing usually). But the two mosst commonly suspected are the ganme players and the sorts who want it but are like dogs chasing the ice cream truck with no idea what to do when it does stop in the street. People are just complicated and we see a weird sliver of a facade for each (including all of ourselves) on these sites. Hooking up might not be everyone's agenda, at least not for all of the folks they befriend.

Some of the most insightful, interesting and intelligent comments I have seen on this site. It's all about the ice cream truck. And maybe dogs in heat. It's all good.

[Mariposa Blanca]

I am quite happy having friends from all over, even knowing that distance will preclude any face to face meeting with someone. I will get into conversation with people usually based on some catalyst. A comment in a thread, a post on a wall, a blog entry. If I were to actually get into deep conversation with every single one of my Internet friends, I'd have to win the lottery because there'd be no time left for my job. Lol.

People will float into and out of your life for various reasons. Having a friendship on here doesn't mean I will be in constant touch with someone, but one or the other of us may reach out at some point. And that's cool.

[Mandingo the Barbie Lover]

Sigh..... why do you guys ask the same questions over and over? Because 95% of the women are men.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by Mandingo the Barbie Lover

Sigh..... why do you guys ask the same questions over and over? Because 95% of the women are men.

So true!!!

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by Mariposa Blanca

I am quite happy having friends from all over, even knowing that distance will preclude any face to face meeting with someone. I will get into conversation with people usually based on some catalyst. A comment in a thread, a post on a wall, a blog entry. If I were to actually get into deep conversation with every single one of my Internet friends, I'd have to win the lottery because there'd be no time left for my job. Lol.

People will float into and out of your life for various reasons. Having a friendship on here doesn't mean I will be in constant touch with someone, but one or the other of us may reach out at some point. And that's cool.

Totally agree 💋

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I keep a very close nit circle. Just bc your on my friends list doesn't mean that we gonna get down like that. Besides not many (not bragging, just stating a fact) can play the way I like to play. Simply can't can't be bored with mundane sex. So that narrows the playing field!' Plus I choose not to spread myself around, hell I would never get off my backside if I slept with everyone on my friends list.

All my female friends had better watch out. Im gunning for you. Lol.


It's very VERY rare for me to send a friends request. Now only accept those that I've personally verified. Geesh and I just deleted over 600 friends. Still not possible to sleep with the remainder. Lol Plus I have my cuck buddies *waves* no sex there.

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

Some are on these sorts of sites to genuinely meet people to pursue further real meetings. Some just want to be part of the larger community. It would be unrealistic to think you'll be meeting people in real time who are thousands of miles away. But the lifestyle is about getting together on some level with others with the same socially relaxed outlook. For us, locals are potential for go beyond that. But that is potential. Meeting soemtime at a public lifestyle event or whatever is comfortable for all involved can assess such chemistry, Sending a message about getting together to screw is not too forward to some perhaps, but to many it is presumptuous and maybe even desperate, neither being attractive. There are those in fantasyland, others still figuring out what they want (though genuine), others playing games and wasting time, and others just being either particular in their selections of playmates or just uncomfortable in progressing on that in cyberspace (a generational thing usually). But the two mosst commonly suspected are the ganme players and the sorts who want it but are like dogs chasing the ice cream truck with no idea what to do when it does stop in the street. People are just complicated and we see a weird sliver of a facade for each (including all of ourselves) on these sites. Hooking up might not be everyone's agenda, at least not for all of the folks they befriend.

My thoughts exactly...GOOD ANSWER!