
11-20-2012, 07:50 PM
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My piece of advise ..
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Originally Posted by wscreate
I had no idea my wife was into black guys. She has always been pretty tame in bed. Most of all she has done has been with me. I am a freak in bed and we have tried everything during our 8 year marriage. But, she is just not a freak or anything like that, at least, I don't think so. She won't even watch porn unless I spend an hour talking her into it.
Anyway, I rented this one porn vid and there was about 30 episodes on it. Of the 30, one of them had a well hung black guy. When that scene came on, she remarked that this was the first time she had seen a black cock. We had sex as usual and the porn really turned us both on.
The next day, I left the video on the back of the table behind the player. About noon, she sends me photos of herself fucking the largest dildo I bought her, one she refused to touch before. I didn't know what changed her mind. She called and said we could now use the dildo as she had broken it in. I didn't put two and two togther yet.
When I got home, I noticed that the video was in the cd player, not behind the player as when i had left. I asked her if she had watched the video and she was embarrassed. I told her I was happy she did and that I love that she watches porn. We rented some more and I noticed that she stopped and watched intently when it was a black guy fucking a white woman. I also noticed that she was very wet and horny afterward.
I began sending her mp4 movies to her phone of interracial porn. She watched them and I could tell she liked them. I later found evidence that she was watching IR porn that I hadn't sent her.
After a few months, I told her I was open to her taking a black lover as long as I was present with her. She refused. She said she didn't like black guys and she was not into stepping outside the marriage. I assured her that I was fine with trying it and that we could do it discreetly if she wanted, but she refused.
I have brought it up subtly about twice since then and she says she will not do it. However, she continues to watch bbc porn and we still watch it together.
I am wondering if anyone can advise me. Should I leave this alone? Does she sound like someone who will not ever do this or, as I suspect, is she afraid to admit her desires to me. I have considered waiting until she is drunk and arranging a bbc, but I don't know if this will be a good thing.
Advice is welcomed.
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Based on experience with my wife, and we've walked the talk, she did eventually take on an old university friend and roommate of mine, who happens to be black! His name is Edwin and they fucked their brains out ... it was a truly awesome experience for all concerned.
From what you've written your wife sounds much like mine! I did the same as you've done with the IR movies bit. The wife initially said they turned her off, then it was "Well if you want to" to "OK! Let's do that!" and on it went. The thing that turned my wife on the most was when we would be making out. I would say something like, "Would you like this to be a big black one that is getting into you?", or "Could you handle a big black one now?" In short take every opportunity to drive home the point that you'd like to see her get laid by some well hung black guy! When at the beach, in a shopping mall or on a street, wherever we saw a potential black lover for her I'd say something like, "Like that black guy?" or, "Think that black guy is well hung?" or "Think that black would like to get in your pants?" ... always with emphasis on the black guy and SEX! It took several years before the wife actually came around and "DID IT!" Now, after several months has passed, the wife is the one that's saying, "I think it's time to give Edwin a call!" or, like the other night when we were making out. "God! I'd love to fuck another black guy!"
So my final piece of advise: "Be consistently persistent and at a slow and steady pace. Never rush it, push it or impose it! All will be well and end well!"
Good luck and keep us posted.
Last edited by drillher4me; 11-20-2012 at 07:57 PM..
Reason: vocab
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