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Wow... I understand the need to protect one's privacy and all of that, but I can't help but wonder about the people who take that to the extreme.

Sure, you're taking a chance by putting too much out there online... but look where you all are -- online. This isn't an in-person, meet-n-greet, where you can exchange ID's and STD test results in realtime. These digital checks (photos, etc) are pretty much all we have to go on initially.

The question I'm always thinking when I hear/read that people are unwilling to provide proof of who they are is; what else are they not saying? Even if they turn out to be "real", what else might they be holding back, presumably for the sake of their own privacy? Could those be things that I really should know before I commit to meeting strangers, in some strange place, in order to do (possibly) strange things?

You see, what some of you don't seem to get is that there actually needs to be at least the appearance of trust for all of this to actually end up with everybody hooking up... Hell, even an escort won't return your call if your number is blocked. Are you going to give the black men here at least that much consideration? Or should we just fly completely blind all of the time?

One last thought... If the idea of anyone finding out about your black cock fetish is so earth shatteringly, god awful scary for you, maybe it's just not the lifestyle for you.