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[Black_Stud]

This topic is about: Taking advantage of emotional neglected (older) women.

As part of my Research in the Female Behavior in relation to the interracial lifestyle - black men; I would like to get as much info to get a realistic view on this topic.

Questions to the men:
- Have you ever taken advantage of an emotional neglected (older) woman?
- Would you ever take advantage of an emotional neglected (older) woman if you had the chance?

Questions to the women:
- Have you ever been in a situation you have been taken advantage of because at some point in life you was emotional neglected?
- Would you actually intentionally allow men to take advantage of you when you're emotional neglected?

Question to both men and women:
- What is your honest opinion about men taking advantage of emotional neglected (older) women?

[Que-Jay201]

could you please define "TAKING ADVANTAGE OF"????

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by Que-Jay201

could you please define "TAKING ADVANTAGE OF"????

"Taking Advantage Of" in this case - in context = take Sexual advantage of a woman. In a broader sense, even financial if the woman in question is rich and so on.

I am aware that this is a sensitive issue and topic to discuss and or talk about. Probably not many men and women would dare to anwser and or share their personal experience(s). Yet it's very important to know to what extent emotional neglected (older) women are exposed to this type of situations (taken advantage of by (opportunistic) men in sexual, financial way).

[jimbrowski]

This is a tough question to answer because a lot, and I do mean a lot, are emotionally neglected, and then you have a lot of those are emotionally challenged; where they're emotionally needy tonthe point of being a lunatic. Then they wont tell you that they're neglected until and if you spend a lot of time with them.
It's hard to tell in the beginning. I tell females what they want to hear, whether I think it or not; I don't do it to be malicious though; on every female you'll find something on them or about them that you'll find appealing because for the most part all females want to hear that they're beautiful, or that they have beautiful bodies, or that they're pussy is the best, or that they suck dick the best.

[Mustang Alley]

Not throwing stones, just my personal POV.

I'm a firm believer in karma!!! Young, old, men, women it's all the same to me. I could never take advantage of anyone and honestly would give karma a helping hand if they tried that BS with me.

But with that being said, I do know that some women love to be used and taken advantage of even open theirselves up to it. Crazy. So I guess it only makes sense that others have learned how to take advantage of those type situations.

Ha but if she's emotionally unstable I advise ya to stay away and hide your bunny rabbits. Crazy women out there.

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Not throwing stones, just my personal POV.

I'm a firm believer in karma!!! Young, old, men, women it's all the same to me. I could never take advantage of anyone and honestly would give karma a helping hand if they tried that BS with me.

But with that being said, I do know that some women love to be used and taken advantage of even open theirselves up to it. Crazy. So I guess it only makes sense that others have learned how to take advantage of those type situations.

Ha but if she's emotionally unstable I advise ya to stay away and hide your bunny rabbits. Crazy women out there.

It does seem there are a lot of women with emotional problems (neglected, unstable) these days. Probable cause: Breakups - divorce, one-parent moms, low self-esteem (result of emotional abuse and or due media promoting a certain look how a woman should look like, etc.).

Others can learn how to take advantage of those type of situations. Therefore it's important to know to what extent this phenomenon is taking place to prevent women being victimized.

It's good advise for men to stay away from women who are emotional unstable - crazy women as you call them.

For women who are emotional neglected and unstable who wouldn't like to get advantage of; perhaps you should try to talk about it with family, friends or doctor (psychiatrist) and build up your self-esteem.

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by jimbrowski

This is a tough question to answer because a lot, and I do mean a lot, are emotionally neglected, and then you have a lot of those are emotionally challenged; where they're emotionally needy tonthe point of being a lunatic. Then they wont tell you that they're neglected until and if you spend a lot of time with them.
It's hard to tell in the beginning. I tell females what they want to hear, whether I think it or not; I don't do it to be malicious though; on every female you'll find something on them or about them that you'll find appealing because for the most part all females want to hear that they're beautiful, or that they have beautiful bodies, or that they're pussy is the best, or that they suck dick the best.

Indeed it's hard to tell if a woman is emotional neglected; especially in chatrooms. Most women seem to be very spontanious in chatrooms. In real life it's maybe harder for emotional neglected women to act spontanious.

Being an active chatter on ILI-Chat; I did came across several women (not telling who out of privacy and respect) who you could consider being emotional neglected - unstable. In their case they told about their low self-esteem and their need of attention.
That need of attention can have an possitive outcome "if" they find someone who understands their situation, respect them, not take advantage and help women get self-esteem.
Unfortunately they end up being used; often in sexual ways.

Some might say; you're a hypocrite and not helping the emotional neglected women (on iloveinterracial chat).
Maybe I can't help them in a professional way but this forum topic can be used in "their" advantage and even give them the moral support knowing people do care about them.

[Black_Stud]

LARGE AMOUNT OF EMOTIONAL NEGLECTED WOMEN ACTIVE ON ILI-CHAT

Over the past few months I have been talking to many "new" Female ILI-Chat members (FICM) and included them into the field study.

After studying the collected Research Data (RD); thus far shows atleast 75% of the FICM are emotionally neglected. The outcome will most likely be much higher. This high amount of emotional neglected women (ENW) is very alarming.

To what extent FICM are emotionally neglected is hard to say. They all often have a very good way of hiding their (real) problems. It takes time to study all the RD to come to a conclusion.

[Ronnie 22]

Pains me to say this. When Dad died suddenly Mom was distraught. Sought consolation from/with parish priest. Developed into sexual relatkship that lasted a year or so. Mom eventually recognized his duplicitous behavior. Nevertheless maintains to this day that it was what she needed at the time and remains a churchgoer.

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by Ronnie 22

Pains me to say this. When Dad died suddenly Mom was distraught. Sought consolation from/with parish priest. Developed into sexual relatkship that lasted a year or so. Mom eventually recognized his duplicitous behavior. Nevertheless maintains to this day that it was what she needed at the time and remains a churchgoer.

Thank you for your comment and thank you for sharing your experience.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Your comment / experience is another example of the different types of emotional neglected women who are out there and similar women who are active on ILI-Chat.

All women seem to seek (and find) comfort in a man who's there for her at times in need.
To what extent and what type of comfort they're looking for depends on the personal situation they're in.

Your comment / epxerience will be included in the Research Data.