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[BiBBWDivaGoddess]

Why do Black men assume that ALL white women are submissive?! I can't tell you how many Black men messaging me stating that they are Dominant and that they seek submissive women to obey them. Yeah ok whatever. Let me tell the group this Im a Domme/Mistress as I'm a VERY Dominant woman! I loathe going down on my knees and say: "Yes Master" "No Master". I only get on my knees to suck Black dick! I love sucking BBC! I can't tell you how many men ignore me and stop talking to me simply because I'm a Dominant take charge woman! They run away in fear! LMAO! Listen up little doggie keep your ass on the porch I need a Black man that can run with this woman! I won't submit nor will I ever submit. I need a VERY strong Black man to go toe to toe with me whether it's in the bedroom or the boardroom to even have a healthy debate on current events while we are eating dinner. I seek MY equal! I'm very intense very passionate and very raw. I'm also very sensual and very sexual! I'm very hard to control and to handle, just ask my 2 ex-fiancés they tried to and they failed miserably! By the way the were both white lol! Does anybody have any advice or comments on this subject?! All is very much appreciated! Thanks!

[newblkman22]

I can't speak for everyone but I have always liked more aggressive and dominant women. I like a woman who can take charge and be the boss, speak her mind never been into submissive women.

[mrfit53]

Why do all white American women assume that all African American men want them?

[jimbrowski]

2 reasons from my own experience: thats how they're mainly portayed in porn movies; when I was younger I never seen any African, asian, or hispanic females in porn; they were far and few between, so every movie back then had the white woman in extremely submissive roles.
The other reason is how white men talk about white women. Working around white men and having them explain or share their sexual escapades was often times shocking; granted, I don't normally hang around white men so these are working relationships and in passing, and I know that it may be some "chest thumping" & banter or making themeselves seem like they're better than what they actually are, but I've never heard a white man in my age group speak positively about his wife, or the women he's fucking on the side, or even the girlfriend.
Now, in terms of a "dominant" woman; in the bedroom I dont personally care if a female's dominant, submissive, or neutral because my aim is to have fun. If we're just in a sex relationship a females character doesn't really matter, but if we're in a monogamous reletionship in hopes of getting married then a dominant woman outsise of the bedroom presents a problem for me, and any man I would think. Not because of fear, but because of added stress in an already stressfull life!
E.g., let's say I come home from work and find out that we have a financial situation in our household, and I have more experience with financial matters; so I make the suggestion to go one way based on experience, and you decide to go another way just to exercise your "dominance", it would be a VERY short relationship! I'm not going to waste time in my life with someone who opposes me on every front for no good reason, and just because she's dominant. Life is TOOOOOOOO short, and there's TOOOO many woman that I wouldn't have to put up with that to choose from.

[Rodh]

All black men do NOT assume that all white women are submissive!

[Mr Real]

Originally Posted by BiBBWDivaGoddess

Why do Black men assume that ALL white women are submissive?! I can't tell you how many Black men messaging me stating that they are Dominant and that they seek submissive women to obey them. Yeah ok whatever. Let me tell the group this Im a Domme/Mistress as I'm a VERY Dominant woman! I loathe going down on my knees and say: "Yes Master" "No Master". I only get on my knees to suck Black dick! I love sucking BBC! I can't tell you how many men ignore me and stop talking to me simply because I'm a Dominant take charge woman! They run away in fear! LMAO! Listen up little doggie keep your ass on the porch I need a Black man that can run with this woman! I won't submit nor will I ever submit. I need a VERY strong Black man to go toe to toe with me whether it's in the bedroom or the boardroom to even have a healthy debate on current events while we are eating dinner. I seek MY equal! I'm very intense very passionate and very raw. I'm also very sensual and very sexual! I'm very hard to control and to handle, just ask my 2 ex-fiancés they tried to and they failed miserably! By the way the were both white lol! Does anybody have any advice or comments on this subject?! All is very much appreciated! Thanks!

By the sounds of it you only submit sexually only, these men looking at it from purely a sexual point of view for you to submit. You have to understand that blackmen don't have the economic structure for you women to submit to and this is why the average blackman find it hard getting a submissive woman in terms of relationship and whitewomen don't really want to downgrade to a man who not got a economic structure, blackmen are sex objects....its reverse psychology going on and this is why blackmen and whitewomen relationships minus the sex talk is not always norishing from how i see it.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by Mr Real

By the sounds of it you only submit sexually only, these men looking at it from purely a sexual point of view for you to submit. You have to understand that blackmen don't have the economic structure for you women to submit to and this is why the average blackman find it hard getting a submissive woman in terms of relationship and whitewomen don't really want to downgrade to a man who not got a economic structure, blackmen are sex objects....its reverse psychology going on and this is why blackmen and whitewomen relationships minus the sex talk is not always norishing from how i see it.

Ooohhhh here we go with this old, tired, played out bullshit that's used to try to stop white women from crossing the color line for good [and too many of them (white women) use it themselves to justify their decisons about relationship (or /non-relationships) with black men] . . . you need the white man for economic support and the black man for sexual satisfaction This is the 21st century. Get with it! The reason why some black people might believe all white women are passive is the same reason why some white people hold to the adage that you need the white man for the money and the black man for the "honey" . . . IGNORANCE Now, I'm here to set the record straight. All white women are not passive. What ALL white women are is passive-aggressive ! Now that's what they are hahahahahaha !!!

[ciber_depravado]

Mine is not submissive in everyday life (just the opposite). It's true that when we fuck she expects a more "aggresive" attitude from me and I make my role, but I'm more submissive than her.

I suppose that the idea of white women being submissive to black people is part of the legend, and for many people is what they want to believe...

[jedislut2k]

Not all Black Men are like but a large number are. I think its the fantasy of the submissive white woman that came out of the history of oppression in this country.

I prefer sex to be aggressive, but switching back on forth who is on top and the aggressor

[florida hubby]

To each his own I guess. I really enjoy being submissive to dominant men during sex. I will do whatever I'm told to do when I'm told to do it. Or don't say a word and just take whatever you want. Either way I will luv it...Becky