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[Lonelybull]

Originally Posted by navywifezzz

What is there to rethink?
Are you of the mindset that it’s just a word
Because it is not.
If you’re cool with being called a racial slur
then it says something about both of you.
There’s no amount of
decent, adequate, good, fantastic sex to make me
disrespect someone with a term meant to destroy the psyche
of another person
I don’t have to walk a day in your shoes to know
that it is something you should never do or consider
I am baffled and dumbfounded that this would be uttered
under the guise of just role playing or having sex
Nope not today
I know too many great men to ever say this to them
I know their journey
But this is just me desiring to treat people the same

I don't know how you got me seeing it as "just a word" from this post. I made it pretty clear that this made me uncomfortable, enough for me to come on here and post about it.

Her husband told me she said it with all the guys she had been with so that made me think that more guys are ok with it than I first thought.