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I would watch porn with him and have some interracial sex in it and see how his body reacts. Sometimes we don't want to admit what turns us on.

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Originally Posted by baricas (Post 99517)

I would watch porn with him and have some interracial sex in it and see how his body reacts. Sometimes we don't want to admit what turns us on.

That's a great idea! And I will show him how much it turns me on to watch a black guy fucking a white woman.

Preferably some other guy's wife!

Thank- you!

I agree with the adult video that includes interracial sex. Usually those with amateurs or non professional actors are really good to watch. If he does not respond, then perhaps have a secret affair with someone you trust that will be discrete and safe. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

have you ever hinted to hubby your attracted to something like this especially with a black man? if not break the ice at least try to get him on board with it. you might find out he might be. hard decision

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Originally Posted by checkoutmywife (Post 99551)

Ask my husband if he was serious?

Was that a question? or your opinion?

Like I said... The last time I joked about it- he stared at me and said "whatever makes you happy, Shelly"

I don't know if he was tired of hearing me joke about it, or if he was finally admitting that he would let me.

His face looked either blank- or defiant. I couldn't tell, so I just kind of stormed off, laughing, like the argument was ridiculous, and I was done fighting with him.

I couldn't read him that day for sure. I can't tell if he was daring me to continue talking about it because he wanted me to...

or if he was daring me to keep talking because he doesn't want me to, but wanted to see how I would react.

I honestly don't know.

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Originally Posted by tight_fit (Post 99553)

yes- I have hinted. in the way I described- by teasing him. And I am only interested if it is a black man.

I might find out he is on board with it... or it could out me as a slut, and ruin my marriage. Plus if it got out why we divorced, it would really be hard in my family.

I wish he would bring it up with me- or else I'm going to have to do it behind his back.

Be honest with him. you don't want to ruin your marriage and he may surprise you with his attitude towards it

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Originally Posted by sluttyanalwife (Post 99439)

I am 30 years old, no kids. Married my high school sweetheart 5 years ago, and have only ever been with him. We have a good sex life. He is good in bed, attentive... but he's not well endowed.

He goes away a lot for work for days at a time, and when he does, I get lonely.
For the past 2 or three years I have been watching a lot of interracial porn when he's away, and I love watching a black guys (or guys) have sex with a white women. I secretly wish I was one of them! My husband doesn't know about my fetish.

We know lots of people, and some are black, but he doesn’t spend a lot of time with them. I tease him all the time that because he doesn't hang out with any of the black people we know, people might think he is a bit of a racist. One time we were having an argument about this, and I called him a closet racist, and suggested he would be jealous of a black dildo. He laughed, and then a few days later he bought me one and said that it proves that it doesn't bother him at all! (I use it all the time!! )

But years later, he still doesn’t hang out with black guys, just white ones.
So about a year ago, we were arguing again, and I jokingly said to my husband that maybe the only way to prove he isn't racist is to let me have sex with a black guy, in our bed while he is in the house, and for him to not do anything to stop it. He quickly answered "Yeah, that's not going to happen", and I just laughed it off. But last weekend I joked about it again, and he just stared at me and said "whatever makes you happy". I just laughed and let it go at the time, but I can't stop thinking about it. Did he imply that he's now OK with this? Like did me bringing it up all the time get him used to the idea? Did I wear him down? Or was he just tired of the joke?

Now that wonder if maybe he has given me the go ahead, I really really want to do it... Like sooo bad. But a small part of me is kind of worried that he's not OK with it. I kind of don't want to come out and actually ask him if I can, because what if he was not giving me approval? And then I look like a bit of a tramp. At least now I can say i was just joking.:p

A black guy I work with flirts with me all the time. He is tall, muscular, and I bet he is hung! I think he likes me enough that I could get him into bed... I want to see a black cock in real life. I want to do all sorts of things with him.:eek:

I'm also kind of worried that if I do go ahead with it this one time, that I might want to do it again. I don't want to ruin my marriage.

Stupid Pornhub interracial porn!

What should I do?

You sound like a really interesting woman… your husband is lucky to have you and if he were I, I wouldn’t have an issue it be encouraged and embraced I actually have very simple requests and guidelines I ask of and they are really not a bad thing! No condoms, no pulling out and either I watch and or participate and I clean her up in between or you being home the treat… I think it’s a major sexual turn on to share a significant other with a black lover. As long as she still with me.

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Originally Posted by mark14u2 (Post 99678)

Be honest with him. you don't want to ruin your marriage and he may surprise you with his attitude towards it

I have tried... by hinting.

But it's so hard to actually come out and tell him I want to fuck a black guy. We are pretty repressed in the bedroom.

And I don't want this to cause us to split up if he is totally against it... I just want more. (more inches, more thickness, more rough, more submissive, more guys at once) (and more Black in me! LOL!)

Sigh! Being on here has just made me want it more

Don't bother telling him

Don't tell. Go ahead and fuck a black guy (I volunteer). If you decide its a one-time thing (which you won't) then you go back to your current life and no one has to know. Of course, the almost assured scenario after you experience what you've been missing is that you will confront him and lay down the law to him. He will either accept your new lifestyle or you will move on. Regardless of what he decides, it's a win/win for you.