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[geedds]

I would not be the les bit suprised if i saw the girls i when to school with on here. Has they was christians you know the type fuck every guy and girl they see but hate you cause your poor and don't do drugs.

[m4272000]

I would say that if you both know each other well and you're friends. Then go ahead and make share your desire for Black Men and Black Cock. You have both the same taste. So there is noting to be ashamed of. And if you don't live to far from each other. You both could share guys you meet, like and trust. But if she's only someone you know and not really a friend. Then what do you care??? It's her life. If she's a friend. It would be great to share stories of what you both enjoy and have enjoyed. How quiet are you???

Originally Posted by tanyawife

Has this happened to other people on here?

I was nearly shocked when I saw the woman in this photo as she is somebody I know:


ILoveInterracial.Com - - Interracial Cowgirl On Top - photo from mule


I had absolutely no idea she was into this lifestyle, but I'm positive this is someone I know. The hairstyle and glasses give her away.

I won't embarass her my saying her name in public but she is a divorced mother of three very beautiful blonde daughters. Very well spoken and very middle class. She works as a nurse. She isn't as young as some of the users who have commented on the photo seem to think as she is in her forties. I would be fascinated to know if there are any other photos of her on the internet. If you knew her you'd know she really isn't the "type" to be posing for photos, never mind interracial sex photos for public consumption - but then it's always the quiet ones, I suppose!


Has anyone else ever been in this position? Isn't it a strange feeling to see someone you know from everyday life in a state of undress? I honestly don't know whether to be embarassed or to be excited!

Do you raise the issue with the person when you next see them? Would that be proper? Hard to slip into a conversation, I should imagine!

Or are some things best left unsaid?

I'd be interested in hearing other people's experiences.


Well, at least I know I'm not the only lady in this part of the World with a thing for black guys. Was starting to wonder if this whole scene was something of a internet hoax.


Love all,

Tanya xxx

[anthonyd423]

If it's someone you know personally and are pretty close to, find a way to bring it up in a private place & time just between the 2 of you as it would be much less embarrassing. You can talk, compare interests & maybe even develop a deeper friendship.

If it's someone you've just seen around & don't personally know, don't approach them about it.

[babs275]

# 1 Respect her privacy
#2 Don't do anything that would risk problems for the girls, either

It obviously could be more serious than this but it reminds me of a conversation with a girl when I was in college about how she got a a lot of grief the day before at church because someone told just enough people that he saw her at a bar. My first question was, "Didn't anybody ask him how he saw you there if he wasn't?' " Apparently they were too busy enjoying the gossip to notice that they were passing up another victim. People . . . . .

[babs275]

As much as you probably would like to share and maybe even share; what if YOU are precisely the type of person she wouldn't want to know? What if she enjoys the secrecy and fantasy of it and the picture was posted without her knowledge?

I have seen people I work with on another swinger;s site and am glad that I kept my name and picture off of it, (and somewhat glad they didn't because I would have contacted them otherwise), because it woul djust be ENTIRELY too awkward.

Might be just me, but I don't socialize much with co-workers. What if the people I like at work turned out to people I didn't like outside of work? A friend told me years ago that I keep my circles separate. I didn't realize it until that moment. Now it's a conscious choice. Unlike the girl who was crying on the phone at work theother night about having said/done something on Facebook that cost her friends; trouble at work doesn't affect me at home and vice versa.

Yes, telling her could be fantastic for both of you> And it could be a painful and abrupt end.

[rockmachine7]

I won't give any names or screen names for respect for privacy, but I have seen pictures of a woman I used to meet for sex on this site and another one that caters to the interracial lifestyle. Granted its not really the same, I didn't know her in my "vanilla" life, but still I had no idea that she was into the interracial thing or that her pictures were out there. I just happened to stumble across them.

[geedds]

Originally Posted by babs275

# 1 Respect her privacy
#2 Don't do anything that would risk problems for the girls, either

church because someone told just enough people that he saw her at a bar. My first question was, "Didn't anybody ask him how he saw you there if he wasn't?' ":

# 1 Respect her privacy

A few girls do not want their pic/video on the internet i can understand if the pics was taken without her knowledge/consent. But in todays worlds that is the path to fame and then they act like mad that it was released. You know they knew it was going on the web.

Anyway

I have seen a few girls on here that looks like girls i know same body, face is not straight facing the camera but the same marks (tattoos, birth marks), etc. But yes privacy is a big issue that needs to be respected.

Church goers the very definition of hypocrisies.

[ThickNiggaDick]

All of these years, and I have never seen a picture of anybody I know, or who I have been with. Of course, the most shocking thing of all would be to see an image of myself I haven't put "me" out there like that, and as I was telling one of my ILI friends last night, that's not something that I can afford to do professionally. So, I work very, very hard to "control the message" and avoid an Anthony Weiner-like "incident".

[kimjo]

I've recently removed all the pics I uploaded onto here (except my avatar one which cuts my face off) precicely because I didn't want to be recognised. Don't get me wrong I'm divorced and proud of my 'lifestyle choice' but I'd rather the man I've just started seeing didn't know that I was on this site (just in case he is).

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by kimjo

I've recently removed all the pics I uploaded onto here (except my avatar one which cuts my face off) precicely because I didn't want to be recognised. Don't get me wrong I'm divorced and proud of my 'lifestyle choice' but I'd rather the man I've just started seeing didn't know that I was on this site (just in case he is).

He must be one of those men who doesn't pay attention to details because I'm pretty sure if I was a guy and dating you, I would be able to tell that you are who you are just from your hair, the shape of your body and chances are he has seen that dress//picture before. If not then you need to hide all copies of that pic lol

Hmm plus the corner of your face is showing. Yea you better hope he isn't a member here lol