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[babs275]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

He must be one of those men who doesn't pay attention to details because I'm pretty sure if I was a guy and dating you, I would be able to tell that you are who you are just from your hair, the shape of your body and chances are he has seen that dress//picture before. If not then you need to hide all copies of that pic lol

Hmm plus the corner of your face is showing. Yea you better hope he isn't a member here lol

Kind of like those pictures with a skinny, little black bar over the eyes. Yeah, the eyes are a very important part of recognition; but not the only part.

[geedds]

Originally Posted by kimjo

I've recently removed all the pics I uploaded onto here (except my avatar one which cuts my face off) precicely because I didn't want to be recognised. Don't get me wrong I'm divorced and proud of my 'lifestyle choice' but I'd rather the man I've just started seeing didn't know that I was on this site (just in case he is).

Oops bit late there isn't it? With all the fakes and pic stealers out there who knows how many pics of you there is now?

[Becky Luvsit]

I have a female friend in Ocala that I have partied with (all white gangbangs) and had no idea she was into black men until I saw a photo of her here on ILI getting it doggy style from a black guy. Since from day one she has known that I'm into black men I was suprised she had'nt told me that she was too. I decided to leave it alone and if she wants to tell me, she will. Besides it may have been her one and only interracial experience and she is just not into it....

[kimjo]

Originally Posted by geedds

Oops bit late there isn't it? With all the fakes and pic stealers out there who knows how many pics of you there is now?

Which is precicely why I have never posted any naked pictures on here (or anywhere else). And its a new bf I only started seeing a couple of weeks ago so I'm sure the conversation will eventually get around to this site (I will confess I'm sure).

[willietbrown]

To make a long story short.
Ive been caught by some coworkers from other departments and I took them down ,'my pics
that is because I didnt want it to get around.
Ive posted pics then taken them off since then because it turns me on knowing that I could get caught.
Really I get scared to death sometimes and its hard to explain, then sometimes when Im feeling horny and want to hear u guys Ill post some.
Thats really why I post pics because I love hearing nice things about me and what u would do to me if u had the chance.
Ill end up dreaming about it too. and I love having dreams about and wake up wet!

[nikki1979]

During years past I let my guard down with differant men and let them take candid photo's and a few vid's of myself and them thinking that they would remain in their private collections. I had this delusion for a long long time as one relationship would die and I went to another, and another.
Then one night I was on some site and stumbled upon a entire set of pic's of me with one of my long past lovers. It kinda shocked me to realize that this former lover had posted our personal photo's on line, fully exposing me in every way, yet they had taken the time to blur out their faces and tat's.
Since that time I occasionaly see a pic or two of me on differant sites, I have even seen my face posted on this site several times.
When I first began finding pic's of my past I tried to get them blocked or deleted but the truth is that once they have been posted, just once, they cannot ever be deleted. A site admin explained it like this, the moment it is posted it may be downloaded by 1,10, 100, 1000 differant people who instantly repost it on one or more other sites where the same thing happens all over. The admin said that he would delete the pic's from his site but could not guarantee that they wouldn't be reposted within minutes or days again because they had no way of verification.
So, I have kinda given up and even get a chuckle from time to time when I see some post of me from 15 years ago being claimed by some guy who says that he is posting pic's of some chick he just picked up in a bar and hit last week, etc

I guess the point here is girls, if you let a guy click a pic, any guy, expect to see it posted on some site or some forum someday.

Make ur man put down the cam or phone before you drop your top or get down to buisness unless you are willing to confront your past for ever on the web.

Nikki

[hrku]

I'm pretty cautious when it comes to the Internet. I had a body pic up on here before bit I take it down when I hear people in my social circles talking about online sites. I work Ina very converservative office and I'm pretty sure I'd get some backlash of they realized imjust not that Kosher black guy that I appear to be. I also learned a lesson about sending women pics. If you do decide to do it make sure your face and cock aren't in the same shot lol

[Lovesex3320]

I'd rather never know lol. It would be very awkward.

[sirblck]

Ha! Well If I don't personaly know her? I'd make a move without mentioning the lifestyle, got to get in . If I know her, Im sure there are ways to bringup the subject without introduting into her private life

[gurlella]

I would not say anything to her about HER. However, if you trust her to keep secrets, then give her clues about YOU.

For example, you could say something to her like: just between the two of us, I am finding black men to be extremely sexy. It has to be so hot to have sex with them.

Then just wait to see what she has to say. You can say a little bit more, but don't push it until you get a positive response for her.