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[Geraldine]

Of course it's to let a black man FUCK me. Love is not part of the equation - that's what boyfriends and husbands are for. When I'm with a black guy it's pure lust and if he verbally (and to a certain extent physically) abuse me, the joy is so much greater. There is nothing like feeling a black man shoot his cum into me. So do I love the black guy fucking me? - no. I don't hate him either, but I can't be neutral. I LOVE the way his cock fills me.

[jade1970]

must agree, is all about the fucking

[Julie220]

For me, it's the sex, don't need "intimacy" but when fucking, that feels pretty intimate to me, if only for a while.

[jodired]

Notice how all the women posting here say the same thing. We don't want to "make love"...we want to FUCK. I never reached anything close to an orgasm from "making love." I had my FIRST orgasms of my life at age 31 with the first Black Man to FUCK me. And I cum pretty much every time with every Black Man since then

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by jodired

I never reached anything close to an orgasm from "making love

Then someone wasn't doing it right.

My vote is for both..

[AlinaM]

It's a bit of both!!

[JandGinSD]

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

Spot on!!! Gotta have all the above.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

This really validates one of the many emotional differences between men and women that I learned about many moons ago. A woman craves intimacy or "closeness" to a man in order to fully enjoy having sex with him. Whereas, on the other hand, a man craves sex with a woman in order to feel that same "closeness" to her.

Neither of these emotions is "better" or "worse" than the other. It's just the way we are naturally wired as men and women. And the beautiful thing about it is this. Although the male and the female "equations" here look different, the goal that each man and woman who are sexually attracted to each other wants to achieve is exactly the same. Intimacy. Closeness.

Men want that too ladies. Very much so! We just express ourselves about it differently. Now, TMV is 100% right. There is indeed a lesson here for men. BUT, there is also a lesson here for women too! So many women think they already understand men, but so many women absolutely do not. They really, really, really don't.

Both men AND women need to take time out to really learn about and understand what makes the other gender tick. When both men and women do that, they just might be shocked to discover that they're actually both trying to achieve the exact same thing when it comes to sex. Romance. Intimacy. Closeness. They just have a different way of showing it is all.

[nwprincess]

Straight fuckin
Theres time 4 intimacy also but mostly straight fuckin :P