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[sheLIKESdenzel]

Side Note...
I'm just looking for a sex toy for the wife. A "nice" one, a gentleman. Or we wouldn't call you back.

[dondadda]

dilemna of my life - to be nice, or not. be yourself. truth is, most people are not very nice. they have low-self esteem and are ugly, on the inside, and that's where it counts. of course, you knew that. looking good is great, but i could care less what you look like if/when you show me the ugly truth. win, lose or draw, i'm gonna keep it real, y'all! i'm a nice guy but fuck around if you want to ...

[fxvalleycpl]

Originally Posted by bigthickblkdick

I've wanted to ask the same thing many times. I think some women do, most like assholes. I cannot tell you how many beautiful women I've encountered who go for the guy who mistreats them, horribly, or a guy who pays them no mind. When showing people like this affection they turn on YOU for being controlling, etc. kinda projecting the bad habits of their current former lovers upon your personality. Puzzling.

It really goes to patterns of people's behavior, prior abuse etc. It the same way those douchey guys came into being, being abused. Really, if you're not abused, you're probably not going to be an asshole. You'll probably not have a penchant for people who are assholes.

The real hurt comes in when you try to "show" a person (taking it from the gender bias to general people here) who has such a piss poor past, that you are different. I mean really, once you figure this out about a person, and you decide to give it a shot, who is the one loving the abuse now? - being rhetorical. Another outcome is observing repeated poor behavior of your chosen pal, and the poor choices they make. Then another outcome is that it all ends up pretty good since you are the nice person and you're just what they needed to snap them out of it.

any and all outcomes are possible. good to bad.

I think a lot of women and indeed people in our society here in the US are victims of abuse. Either they repair themselves or they just remain damaged, like most of us.

The capability to find a kind person or to find someone who likes kind people is to basically hang around those people yourself. trying to find anyone online is just a crapshoot, nothing beats direct human interaction.

Everyone deserves a shot and sometimes a second chance. After that...well then it's up to you.

Couldn't disagree more. Women like strong men and those who take charge in the bedroom in general. But you'll never even get me in the bedroom if you're an asshole. On the contraary, seduce me, treat me like a lady even if its a sllutty lady but don't be an asshole. If we have a prearranged meeeting and we've talked and are meeting with the sexpectation as long as both agree, you can be assertive and seductive and I'll be right there with you. Once in the bedroom chances are I will do anything you want and let you have anything you want but "assholes" are not welcome.

Blacked woman

[goku714]

i read some responses from this thread and most people made some solid points but i want to share some of my knowledge with you guys and you can disagree if you choose i won't judge you.



from what i have experienced i think 90% of the women i meet & talked to love a guy who's kind & has confidence within himself.

to all the nice guys aka good brothers who have been shot down over & over again keep your head up and be confident because that will take you anywhere in life.

[fitter]

Yup seems like ladies like the thugs assholes or plain old jerks.
I'm more of a well spoken laid back nice guy.....big daddy is right nice guys seem to finish
Last or are looked at as "friends" oh well.....