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![]() To be more specific. Should I follow through with my fantasy, ignore my guilt, possible regret of having another man penetrate my wife & feelings like we are going to go to hell and get my wife to feel the same? OR should I try my hardest to get this out of my head and be the best christian I can be? This is almost a daily conflict for me.
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![]() been my fantasy for years she gets very wet and cums quickly when I tell her she is going to have her first bbc then when I try to arrange it she backs down saying if it happens one day it happens I'm still hoping and praying for that day to come. Would love to know how you get on I am considering setting her up maybe take her out for a meal and a few drinks and a bbc would just happen to be there, maybe you could try the same. Good luck
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![]() I'm in a similar situation, sort of. I'm 32 and she's 30, we've been officially married since '06 and we've been together exclusively since '98, so a long time (effectively married 12 years) . I've fantasized about her cuckolding me with black men for almost that whole time but never said anything about it until about two years ago. Finally, I started introducing the concept through random conversation, through sex fantasies and porn, and finally just spat it out and told her. She was shocked, perhaps didn't believe me immediately. She rejected the idea outright. I still try, most recent this last weekend 1-15-11 but she shuts me down as soon as it becomes a subject. What's weird is the sex is still good after such a conversation, maybe better than before, but I can't tell if my persistence has had any effect whatsoever either good or bad. I wish I could give you better advice and info, but my attempt has failed and resulted in a shutdown of the entire subject with her. I'd say keep trying but I myself wonder whether it's possible to convince a wife of many years who knows you are honest in your desire to do such a thing.
We aren't religious we are 'devout' agnostics, so there are no religious barriers for us, I don't think religion or faith is the real holdup here. Good luck, maybe she's different. |
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![]() You need 2 take it slow and introduce these thing at the wright time. You have to know when she is ready by observing what she likes and does not. You need to plant the seed in her mind and water it for a while. She will let you know when she is ready. Keep feeding the interracial porn, introduce her to other women that have done it and become good friends with man you would like her 2 try so she feels comfortable with him around. Know what her weaknesses r and use them. U may have to withhold sex from her and when she is vulnerable have your friend try from time to time she might just surprise u someday.
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![]() I had the same fantasies when I was your age and it took me a long time (mid 30s) before I discussed them with my wife, and to cut a long story short, she went through with it with a hung black guy whilst I got to watch. I guess the point I'm trying to make is for me the desire to see my wife fucked hard by another guy never went away, but what did go away were the feelings of guilt I once used to have when I thought about it. Whatever happens, if you do this, make sure you do it in a way that doesn't damage you as a couple - if now is not the right time, then wait until you're both ready for this. Was it a good experience for us - absolutely!
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