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[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by Canadian Black Breeder

Damn, seriously?

Sad but true....I know of this because I dated him when I was 16 years old and his family and friends (yes his own family) made sure he filled me in so I could decide to date him or not.. They actually stood in the distance while he told me about it.. I was like OMG are your friends and family crazy??? But you gotta remember I'm in the deep south.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Sad but true....I know of this because I dated him when I was 16 years old and his family and friends (yes his own family) made sure he filled me in so I could decide to date him or not.. They actually stood in the distance while he told me about it.. I was like OMG are your friends and family crazy??? But you gotta remember I'm in the deep south.

Don't you know that if a white person has sex with a "colored", then that will change the make up of the chemistry of your blood

[Canadian Black Breeder]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Sad but true....I know of this because I dated him when I was 16 years old and his family and friends (yes his own family) made sure he filled me in so I could decide to date him or not.. They actually stood in the distance while he told me about it.. I was like OMG are your friends and family crazy??? But you gotta remember I'm in the deep south.

Hmm and to think that i actually thought that evolution had arrived in the south

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by Canadian Black Breeder

Hmm and to think that i actually thought that evolution had arrived in the south

Well that was 20 years ago.. not saying things haven't stayed the same in some places... think thats why IR is so Taboo down here...

Waving up there at you TND when I say Taboo and DOWN HERE ya know in the south.. lol..

Sorry Doggie, didn't mean hijack your thread..

To answer your question, I pick and choose who knows... my close people that is.. beyond that I don't care who knows...

[Becky Luvsit]

Its a secrect that everybody knows...LOL...

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by Becky Luvsit

Its a secrect that everybody knows...LOL...

Lol. I feel ya on that one.

[doggieismystyle]

No prob Mustang......

Surprised that no other ladies have touched on this subject. Maybe it goes without saying that most white women want to keep this a secet. Not sure....

Wondering also the flip side to this; any brothas out there that feel compelled to keep this a secret from friends and family?

Have met at least one bourgeois ass brotha who dumped a chick because of family pressure and the knowledge that his family would NEVER accept his marrying a white woman.....

I know shame may keep most of you from responding.... it is what it is though right?

[perkypumpkinssss]

I'm open about it... I'm with the type of man I like.. I won't apologize for that...if people don't like to see a white girl kissing a black guy,, then they shouldn't be looking.

[tx girl]

I grew up in a small rural southern economically segregated but racially integrated town in the 60’s. With my sexual development came my love and lust for blacks though the taboo was ever present. I easily and willingly succumbed to their advances. Well boys love to brag about their conquests and I was soon labeled with derogatory names I need not spell out. I lived with the names and hatefulness throughout middle and high school. Blacks considered me their party girl, their pass around good time while whites thought me to be an easy lay. Subsequently I never had any real steady boyfriends. When I graduated and moved out on my own I thought I had learned a valuable lesson, be discreet, don’t upset the status quo. Today I feel I’ve been conditioned over all those years to be a very private person in regards to my preference for men. I am, however, happy to see that things have changed for today’s generation.

[doggieismystyle]

In general, in many places, yes, people dont even blink when they see an interracial couple. How ever, depending upon what circles one frequents, the disdain for interracial couplings is heavily prevalent yet rarely voiced publically. In other words, aint shit changed for many people when it comes to this topic.

Case in point, black women still HATE to see a good looking and or affluent brotha with a white woman, hell any kind of woman other than another black woman.

I have to make this point as well.... Sure black males, especially American black males, are much beloved by women around the world.... But, many women will fuck us for fun, but wont be seen with us publically one on one, even if its platonic. Very ironic that you ladies would love us privately and yet deny us totally otherwise for fear of what neighbors, friends, family will think.

Yes I am fanning the flames with this message. Just hoping to generate some honest discussion about this topic. Quit being shy ya'll lol.