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I posted this question because I wanted to see the reaction before I stated my point. Cheating is hard to keep secret for very long. And the revelation of sexual cheating is devastating to a marriage. Cheating almost ensures that the marriage will end in divorce once the sex outside the marriage is revealed. So, I contend that situation #1: if you truly love your spouse then you should respect them enough not to cheat. However situation #2, if you marriage has degraded to the point that you no longer have that love and respect for your spouse, then get a divorce now before you cheat. A lawyer once told me that you will have more leverage in the negotiation of a separation settlement if you have not cheated. As I see it, if situation #2 is the case, then your marriage is already going to end in a divorce if you cheat and get caught, so get the divorce now while you still have the leverage. If you are divorce, then it won't be cheating. Either way don't cheat!

Fortunately my hubby and I have an agreement. We usually play together. But our agreement allows either one of us to play without the immediate permission of the other. Our only rule is that we must share the details the next time we make love. Hubby travels a lot for business and there have been a few times when I caught him fucking other women without telling me. I really felt betrayed. This lead to a new rule: hubby must collect the panties of any woman that he screws. That way when I unpack his bags and find some panties, I know to ask him about them. Hubby is usually pretty successful on his trips. His last trip, we arranged through a swinger site for him to meet up with a cuck and his wife for Friday night to Sunday (1 pair of panties). Then when I unpacked him, I found 5 more pairs of panties. Mon., Tues., and Wed., nights were ladies from the conference. Thurs. was 2 married ladies on a girls night out. I get wet thinking of my hubby sending those ladies home to their hubbies without their panties. LOL! I, on the other hand, collect the used condoms of my gentlemen friends. Only one time has that not worked for me. He was a black friend, 67 years old, that must have fucked me for over an hour but could not get himself to cum. I finally had to cry "Uncle!" I was so raw that I must have walked bowlegged for a week. It was funny showing hubby this unrolled and unfilled condom while trying to relate all the details. We share these items the next time that we are together. It makes for some really HOT love making between us.