i think that it works fine if you set boundaries and respect them. It was not the same for us. She is german (bavaria) and our love was pure until we starting swinging and she discovered her inner slut. We agrred that the next one i found for her and let her know with a cue to take the next step. But she jump the gun and i stepped out for a few seconds And saw the bull that i brought home making her suck his cock right away. she let him fuck her bare back without me able to say a thing. I never saw her cum so hard and i had to watch him emtty his balls inside her pussy as her orgasm contined. He left pretty fast after that and she had me crawl under her and she sat on my face until gobs of his cum dripped to cover my open mouth. I felt like a total female with him she told me. I have never felt like that with you. I want to see him again soon. I tried to be supportive and i allowed her to go to his hotel alone. I was afraid to become emasculated even further. He wanted us to continue be in love but have her pussy belong to him. I was not prepared to accept this at that time and became afraid that if i played with him he would make me suck his balls to humiliate me. We broke off for a while but i am back with her and if we meet such a bull again, we will both surrender from the Beginning .
I think culturally german women enjoy total surrender to big african males and we know want an exprienced bull that lets me know that he will fuck my girl and handles me like a sissy cuckold in some way
maybe I am not the typical member of this forum, but I am absolutely mesmerized by the potential frame of such a "Lifestyle".
Just some words about me: I am from Germany, single and white, but for some years now I am craving for this kind of relationship; at first it was very hard for me to accept my notions, because I see myself as a proud and self-determined character.
We also have some "black men" here, but mostly from Africa - some seem to be real dominant and somewhat possessive if a white girl gives in to them.
My phantasies are typical for a man like me and I think I could go "all the way" (under the right circumstances) ... but nevertheless it scares me to the bones, for sure ... On the other hand, it's hard to let it go ...
But now my question (because I couldn't much find about it in the threads):
Is it still possible for an "cuckold-couple" to live a happy and quite "ordinary marriage" with quite normal things? And: can a woman whose husband gives way to an "alpha-male" still be respected, treated decent and even loved or will most "men with my penchant" become somewhat of a grotesque picture of a man?
I would be interested what all parts of you (Bulls, Hotwifes and cuckolds) are thinking about it ...
I have the courage to face my desires but I do not want to throw away my option of a happy and fulfilling relationship / marriage.
Thanks for every genuine and open comment. But please don't try to talk me into it, only because you want to see the decline of another white man
Greetings -
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