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[pinkfili]

Originally Posted by warriorotl99

My wife (of 8 years) and I started out much like you two. After talking about it for about two years we finally did it and it was defintely a positive experience. As I had imagined I loved watching my wife fuck a black guy..and my wife enjoyed making me happy. It has brought us closer together and improved our already great sex life. My wife proved to me how much she loves me...and got a good fuck while doing it. It was a win win for both of us. That is why I recommend doing it.

Sounds fine and fun... Did you do it once or has this become a regular thing? Tell me more.. or just send me a message so we can chat more.

[wetasiangirl]

If you decide to do it, you will have lots of fun. I have enjoyed many black men and I can say that the very large black dicks are wonderful.. But be sure your husband is willing to really let you do it. If things may go bad in your marriage then dont. But if you do, you are going to LOVE IT!!!!

[shimp1944]

I voted for you to go all the way since you obviously are headed in that direction in the first place....I would also include hubby for both of your pleasure and to keep your marriage sound...no sense in living a lie when you can live the truth and hubby seems to want it as much if not more than you. I would, however, be cautious enough to either have the Bull take a blood test or use condoms...no sense in being stupid and exposing you , your husband and every other future lover to a disease...I know there are lots of people on here that frown on condoms but what the hell, it's your future....and your life. I am sure you and hubby will make the correct decision and go on to a happy and sex charged life together. Good Luck.

[warriorotl99]

Originally Posted by pinkfili

Sounds fine and fun... Did you do it once or has this become a regular thing? Tell me more.. or just send me a message so we can chat more.

It was fun. We've only done it once...but that was only two weeks ago. I definitely want to do it again but don't want to push my wife too hard. This experience was more for me than for her. I was hoping she'd love it and want to do it again again and again, but I think it's too early to tell where we'll go from here.

[hooked100]

It is a big step and you need to think very carefully before you act. Like others have said here the key is to constantly talk with your hubby all the time and every step of the way.

My hubby had the fantasy of seeing me with a black man for years before we acted on it. I had to be very sure that this was what he really wanted and what I wanted too.

Like you, I had no sexual experience before being married and so there was a curiosity about what it would be like with someone else. My hubby had had gfs before and had a better idea of what he liked/ wanted sexually.

Eventually we went into the lifestyle, but I was very careful initially that we played it along the lines of his fantasy. Once I had been with a couple of bulls I was able to exert more of my fantasy/ requirements into proceedings.

But be warned once you have tried cuckolding it does change the dynamics of the relationship. In our case it has had a very positive effect and I genuinely feel that we are closer, but we had a very strong marriage in the first place.

Also don't fool yourself or let hubby fool himself that you can stop anytime - it is addictive!

Having said all that, for me, it was/ is the best thing that I could have done. I think that I would have always regretted not exploring that side of my sexuality and maybe the frustration might have damaged my marriage at some point in the future.

As regards size - it just makes it different, personally I don't really compare as each man has his own 'style' when making love. The big ones can be a bit uncomfortable at first but they are a unique experience that shouldn't be missed.

xxHelen

[pinkfili]

Originally Posted by shimp1944

I voted for you to go all the way since you obviously are headed in that direction in the first place....I would also include hubby for both of your pleasure and to keep your marriage sound...no sense in living a lie when you can live the truth and hubby seems to want it as much if not more than you. I would, however, be cautious enough to either have the Bull take a blood test or use condoms...no sense in being stupid and exposing you , your husband and every other future lover to a disease...I know there are lots of people on here that frown on condoms but what the hell, it's your future....and your life. I am sure you and hubby will make the correct decision and go on to a happy and sex charged life together. Good Luck.

Thank you. Sounds about right.

[pinkfili]

Originally Posted by hooked100

It is a big step and you need to think very carefully before you act. Like others have said here the key is to constantly talk with your hubby all the time and every step of the way.

My hubby had the fantasy of seeing me with a black man for years before we acted on it. I had to be very sure that this was what he really wanted and what I wanted too.

Like you, I had no sexual experience before being married and so there was a curiosity about what it would be like with someone else. My hubby had had gfs before and had a better idea of what he liked/ wanted sexually.

Eventually we went into the lifestyle, but I was very careful initially that we played it along the lines of his fantasy. Once I had been with a couple of bulls I was able to exert more of my fantasy/ requirements into proceedings.

But be warned once you have tried cuckolding it does change the dynamics of the relationship. In our case it has had a very positive effect and I genuinely feel that we are closer, but we had a very strong marriage in the first place.

Also don't fool yourself or let hubby fool himself that you can stop anytime - it is addictive!

Having said all that, for me, it was/ is the best thing that I could have done. I think that I would have always regretted not exploring that side of my sexuality and maybe the frustration might have damaged my marriage at some point in the future.

As regards size - it just makes it different, personally I don't really compare as each man has his own 'style' when making love. The big ones can be a bit uncomfortable at first but they are a unique experience that shouldn't be missed.

xxHelen

Very good advice. thank you.

[filipinaluvbbc]

It's time for a update!

[bullballslover]

I can't really offer much advise only my position. I was Blacked in high school and the image has never left my mind. It was the only time I felt the true power of cock in every way. It didn't happen but I swear I would have felt his sperms slamming into my egg had I been of time.
I have seem many black cocks in pics and I always feel worshipful toward them in every way esspecially the twotoned cocks. They look even more animalistic

[jaycuck]

Originally Posted by pinkfili

If you think I should just let them men in and enjoy it, tell me why. Give me a good reason to just go crazy...

Have you ever seen the Spike Lee film "Summer of Sam"? The boyfriend talks his girl into swinging and then goes crazy with jealousy. That is a risk. It is also a risk that you will lose respect for a husband that allows himself to be belittled by having someone else fuck his wife.

Having said that it could be an enhancing experience for both of you. I would suggest that if you do it, it is with someone who lives far away, doesn't know your real name and doesn't know where you live. That might help prevent jealousy after the fact. I would also suggest that your husband stays with you, and maybe hold his hand, during the act. That too might help.

Do you have a strong, trusting marriage?