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[87168]

Originally Posted by slut4bbc2

I would say a lot of white women fucking black men are still racist, though would say they aren't. I know that statement won't win me any popularity contests, but white privilege is very real and very much ingrained in the fabric of our society.

You're right. I mean, I bet only a small fraction of these spade hunters would actually consider dating a black guy or marrying one of us for that matter, and even if more would, their families probably would not approve at all, so they just fore go the experience in order to avoid friction.

[katiemad92]

Upon revisiting this thread, an impression that came to mind was an initial statement made concerning the words "whore" and "slut". The poster said that they were bad but not on the level of "nigger" . Actually, I have a problem when you prioritize the seriousness of slurs, whether they be racial slurs or gender slurs. I have had men use those terms when there was not basis to use them, because they had not seen me to be a whore or a slut.

As for the original question, I am sure there are racists here, of all races, and I am sure many racists have had sexual relations with another race in spite of it. It depends on how deep a relationship advances that would determine if a person's views change because of it.

And just one more thought for what its worth: the term racist is way overused...you can be prejudiced without being racist. A person's racial views are influenced by environment, upbringing, life experiences, etc. You can be prejudiced but if you control those prejudices instead of letting them control you and your behavior toward others, then I would definitely say you are not racist.

Just a few random thoughts on a rainy Wednesday.

[lakeman4]

I think the original question was a good one and resulted in some pretty thoughtful replies. As a guy that came pretty close to marrying a woman from Africa (I'm white by the way.) I know how hurtful and sensitive people can be when racist labels are thrown around. I would have never called her a bitch, whore or use the N word. Partly because she would have probably had my head right after that. But considering the responses to this thread maybe a follow up question should be asked. That is the attraction, and I don't mean a big dick, to interracial sex. I mean are is its being taboo, and the edge that brings, or is there something else that attracts you. And that question would be for both the black guys as well as the white women. In fact it could also go for a white guy and black woman. Enjoying the responses to this thread as they seem pretty deep and not full of the BS I see on posts.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by 87168

You're right. I mean, I bet only a small fraction of these spade hunters would actually consider dating a black guy or marrying one of us for that matter, and even if more would, their families probably would not approve at all, so they just fore go the experience in order to avoid friction.

Totally agree and it sickens me. You know where my heart and mind is!!!

[beckysummer]

Not quite understanding this question cause if a girls racist why would she wanna have interracial sex to begin with? About the N word thing. I've had 3 or 4 black lovers who make me say it and one (whos kinda regular) who knows how much I get off on kissing. He makes me ask to be "nigger lipped" and makes me tell his friends that I love being nigger lipped while he kisses me. Not sure if theres any right answer to this thread but theres sure a lot of interesting indeas and replies thats for sure. Anyways, my 2 cents.

[BBC2stretchu]

Originally Posted by keepit100SouthFL

Nah, ain't happening, no scallywag is calling me racist names without me checking her to where her soul is hurt afterwards regardless of what preprogrammed internet fantasy she has. Let another corny sucker black male accept that, chick MUST respect me in public and private across the board or else I can't be around her and the weak shit she on.

Every dude is different but I'm not desperate for "white pussy" like many other guys. I give props to those females who do genuinely love and understand a black man and not doing it as a fad or something just to tell their close friends during home wine drinking moments or some bullshit.

+1

I could not agree more. All about respect. Some shit on this site is crazy. I am still curious about this topic coming from NY myself and now still new to living in the south.

[keepit100SouthFL]

I still see some ppl with black men sex fetishes are still on the dunce BS and getting their preferences from lame pop culture and bad acting stereotype interracial porn. I guess they can convince a weak/goofy or uninformed one to go along with their program and offerings for a fool but not over here, best believe those same chicks or couples would get checked early by a real black man with some sense of self and I'm pretty sure they want me physically (and likely mentally/emotionally) more than I would want any of those type of females offering anything sexually since I'm far from thirsty/desperate/gullible (and I def don't entertain the possible Catfish). Instead of corny racist gimmicks and e-whore demands come with some real personality and maybe some of you "ladies" would get better results with some real guys on here or even in person, if you're willing to listen.

[keepit100SouthFL]

To add: if a black man likes that's on him to allow that personally but the problem lies with a guy like me meeting chicks who like it/were allowed by a black simp to say racist shit and think they get a pass over here because they're last black boyfriend/fuck friend/babydaddy/gangbang participant said it was cool or thought they were "down". FOH with that, I'm gonna check you first quarter regardless of your background or stripes you got with someone else. You want the D? Better have some overall sense and act right because "settling" and having IR sex with trashy girls isn't something I'm down for.

[eddie54_nc]

I don't use the n word. I will add, however, that I get tired of hearing music that continuously uses the word over and over again. I know there are blacks who are against the use of this word, but yet the music is filled with it. Apparently the word isn't as offensive as would seem. The black community seems to have two schools of thought on its use and seems to be somewhat divided. I'm white, I don't use it.

[Blu Skyz]

I'm against the use of the n-word too. It's an American thing, but some black people in other countries are copying it. I think it should be rejected completely. Why try to re-appropriate a derogatory name?

I don't believe that a white woman who decides to say it in the bedroom would never use it if she got really angry. You probably sometimes use the word in your mind if you ever say it out loud.