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[jimbrowski]

Of course there are; much like the demons that enslaved African people, and "supposedly"
despised African people, but loved having sex with African women, even moreso than their own white women, and white women were considered property as well during those times. I must state that unless you're planning on spending the rest of your life with a person, the whole notion of personal idiosyncrasies are immaterial when just having sexual relationships. I'ts much like when I have sex with married women, or any woman for that matter, what she does in her personal life is of no concern of mine, unless she's a child molester or the like.
I know African, and hispanic women that dont like white people, but I still have sex with them because it's about that moment.

[jedislut2k]

Well I'm not racist, I Have had sex with people of a variety of different racial groups (white, black, asian, latino. I just don't know why we feel the need to classify someone on the basis of physical features or ancestral heritage.

That being said, I have used the N-Word during sex, but only if he asked me to say it. I would never say it in any other context or otherwise. Yes I have played out fantasy scenarios where i was asked to use racial language, but thats just reserved for that sexual fantasy only and in no other way. Much in the same way I would slap a jerk if he called me some names that I encourage my partners to call me during sex. Sex and real life language are different things and dependent on the partners involved

[bluegrass501]

Originally Posted by mrblackfantasee

Well I know for a fact that there are some women or couples that hold very racist views, and some don't really realise it, but some do. There are many many women who want to have sex with a black man and do have sex with black men, but would never have a real or serious relationship with one. Many white women love for BBC is a secret, they would never be publicly seen with a black man, or bring a black man around there family or Friends. For some Black men are only seen as a fuck beast with no real value or qualities outside of sex. But then some white women adore black men, and publicly scream it from the mountain tops. But most are very discrete about their BBC love.

I think part of the greatest turn on of IR sex is the taboo factor, and the term 'nigger dick' or 'nigger cock' makes it even more so. I have no problems with blacks, as long as they have no problems with me. Unfortunately most of the blacks alive today knew nothing about slavery, except what family told them; they've just been trained to hate for the sake of hating. The same holds true for a lot of whites.
When are we going to put this shit behind us and move on with life?
My father was a bit racist, and we had many arguments over the topic, but I wouldn't hesitate to suck a black dick, or have a black friend...just my observations of 60 years

[whtgrlangel]

Personally, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but this post is pretty ignorant if you ask me. What would any girl or guy be sexually attracted to people with whom they do not respect? Sure, there are instances where rapists fuck girls just for the sick and twisted thrill that it gives your average sociopath but to actively seek a physical relationship with a person of color denotes that you must be attracted to and want to spend time with that person wouldn't it?

As far as the "N" word. I think its completely off limits to anyone whether they are in an orgasmic state or not because the word itself is derived from a place of bigotry and fear. Sure, call me a BBC Whore if you want, if that is how you perceive me but in reality I am much more than that. I don't mind when guys call me names during sex at all so I understand the one guys position on different rules for sex but I just don't agree that any women should ever use that word. If so, then the sex must be more a fetish than an physical/sexual attraction.

NOT A RACIST HERE!

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by whtgrlangel

Personally, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but this post is pretty ignorant if you ask me. What would any girl or guy be sexually attracted to people with whom they do not respect? Sure, there are instances where rapists fuck girls just for the sick and twisted thrill that it gives your average sociopath but to actively seek a physical relationship with a person of color denotes that you must be attracted to and want to spend time with that person wouldn't it?

As far as the "N" word. I think its completely off limits to anyone whether they are in an orgasmic state or not because the word itself is derived from a place of bigotry and fear. Sure, call me a BBC Whore if you want, if that is how you perceive me but in reality I am much more than that. I don't mind when guys call me names during sex at all so I understand the one guys position on different rules for sex but I just don't agree that any women should ever use that word. If so, then the sex must be more a fetish than an physical/sexual attraction.

NOT A RACIST HERE!

I would love to verify you. What you say? Lets set up a time to Skype/cam. Looking forward to verifying you. Nothing sexual of course just a hi/hello.
Always happy to add another female or couple to the list.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by whtgrlangel

What would any girl or guy be sexually attracted to people with whom they do not respect?

There you go again trying to be rational. Don't you know that lust 'n love and all that stuff ain't rational ? Hey don't judge me, don't judge me! I won't judge you on this site and don't you judge me . . . I mean, am I exactly "respecting" you if I call you a "BBC luvin' whore" during sex? I don't know about you, but it's not necessarily "respect" that I seek during sex. And, disrespect yields disrespect! Hahaha! We're both complicated people LOL!

But your question reminds me of another discussion I had one time. Actually, I've had it in-depth about twice. It was with married white women whose husbands were true-to-life cuckolds. I asked these women, "Do you respect cuckolds?" Both their answers were unqualified NO's. How could any woman respect a man like that???

So, that obviously begged the question, "So what about your husband then???" And both their answers were unqualified YES's! "Yes, I respect my husband." WTF??? How could that be? I mean, does that make any sense? Is that rational? Is it logical? Hell no!

Well, their explanations were that, "Yes, but my husband is a good man. He takes care of me. He provides for his family." They coulda added, "And he lets me take black dick in front of his face too!" LOLOLOL !!

Seriously though, this may seem a little off topic or trying to change the subject, but really it isn't. My point is that lust and love and sexual attraction/arousal . . . all that sort of thing . . . it isn't always rational and/or logical. Different strokes for different folks. Different dicks for different chicks! As long as it's between consenting adults and nobody is getting hurt physically or emotionally because of it, why lose sleep over it?

Rationality and logic don't rule the day when it comes to human emotions! That's just the way it is, and we have to accept that reality (or be forever struggling against it). So now, that's the reason why somebody who fears blacks or who doesn't like blacks can get a boner seein' his wife gettin' gang-banged by some. A LOT of 'um! And the DARKER the better! Also, it's why the emotionally-charged word . . . "NIGGA" . . . gets some people aroused during sex.

Maybe not you cuz you're just not "wired" that way. To you it's pure racism, and you don't want to say it. But N-word porn has sold enough "copies" to prove that a HELLA LOTTA people out there enjoy watching it. It's not rational. It's not logical. It's not "respectful" or "nice" even. But for purposes of sexual arousal for some people, it just is. Although, even for me its gotten to be a little "stale". Hmm, I wonder what the next "exciting developments" in black/white sexual relations will bring? What's coming next after N-word porn ? Well, interracial sex is no simple "fetish" for me. It's a way of life. So, whatever it is . . . I'm all in! Hahahaha!

[whtgrlangel]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

I would love to verify you. What you say? Lets set up a time to Skype/cam. Looking forward to verifying you. Nothing sexual of course just a hi/hello.
Always happy to add another female or couple to the list.

One: I'm in Italy right now visiting relatives and my internet is very spotty and slow and I'm 7 hours ahead of CST where I normally reside. I won't be back in the states for three more weeks.

Two: I haven't been on this site in a few weeks until this morning where I find your negative opinions of me all over the place where you call me out on being anti-black female (which is retarded). I have no problem doing whatever to verify myself, I've done it twice already with two guys from this site. Personally, I don't really like you very much and could care less if you think I'm white, black or some pimply faced pencil dicked Asian jacking off on my computer.

What makes you the official moderator of this site and gives you the right to totally misrepresent my opinions? I don't do that to you! You completely mischaracterize my statements and that really upsets me because if I'm anything it's not bigoted against anyone or thing. I just don't get you at all. I just want a little dick, not drama. Maybe you like pussy too and figured out maybe I am real but what an awful way to begin a relationship.

I'll be on intermittently while away and see how this evolves. When I'm home, I'll consider responding to your request so long as there is something in it for me and you say your sorry for blasting my posts.

Cortina

[keepit100SouthFL]

Dudes don't see themselves as the prize so they settle being called things they don't like for some hole or because it's cool/trendy/marketable to do so. If that's how the next "brotha" gets down then whatever but what I don't want is that same sucker trying to dap me up when it comes to interracial interactions/encounters and getting some when I had full cooperation (not on some fake "dom" shit or strongarm either. Mind + mouthpiece, use it.) and you did the lame stereotype foolery you saw in a porn online or DVD to get yours. We ain't the same, you do fantasies to cater and I do reality where I win or they can kick rocks if they wanna come wrong.

[Mustang Alley]

"There's plenty of people here who can vouch for me" well not one has stepped up as of yet. Just saying <-- "emoticon".

Yea that's it. I want everyone here to be fake. I want to be the only real woman on this whole site. That way I can keep all the dick for myself. YOU BUSTED ME!!! Guess that's why I have made so many FEMALE friends on site. Some so close we call each other sisters.. So you can shove that theory up your ass. Now if you have to move your balls to the left so you can shove it up your ass that remains to be known.

Oh and FYI the few FEW times that I've been wrong Ive always come back to the board and announced that I was wrong and that the person is totally real. So ya wanna prove me wrong? Honestly I'll be shocked if you actually get on cam. Guess time will tell. FYI I Skype with so many people all over the world so being "out of the county" isn't an issue.

anti blk female??. Now you really need to read your post again. Read your first post then read mine.. My post was correct then as it is now. That first post had strong undertones. We've seen it time and time again on here.

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Originally Posted by whtgrlangel

It's funny to me, maybe ironic is a better word, that black women these days prefer a black man who is light skinned and most white girls including yours truly prefer black men who are very dark.

Most of my black boyfriends over the years have complained to me about their black wives or girlfriends about being too hard on them, too demanding, too high of expectations but not willing to support them in their goals and aspirations. I don't think that black women are bad for black men in general, but I do think that black women should be more supportive and understanding of their black men if they really want them to do well in life.

One thing I have learned from my mother is that men, no matter how smart they are, need the support and confidence of their wives in order to take the risks necessary for true success. Lots of men are smart and have the potential for success but young men especially lack the confidence to always pursue every dream and every angle. It is a loving and supportive women who many times encourages her man to stand up and be strong and can make the difference between a mediocre career and a successful career or entrepreneurial endeavor for their men.

If my mother had not shown complete confidence in my father's ability to make good choices for our family, they would not have moved from Italy to the US for his career and I would likely not be speaking English nearly as well as I do now nor would I have a faint southern draw mixed in with my obvious Italian accent.

Black men in particular already start off their lives behind others because of what slavery, then socialized bigotry, then the welfare state each did to destroy the African American family unit. When a black man succeeds in America, it means so much more than when a white man does. Black men must be smarter and bolder to achieve the same level of success as a white guy because he works twice as hard for the same level of achievement.

The biggest difference I see in white girls vs. black girls is that white girls have no interest in telling their black boyfriends what to do or how to do it. White girls just enjoy their company and are more about the relationship and not the guys career. Black girls seem to be more controlling and more demanding of their men. I think that they want their men to do well but they put too much pressure on them which can sometimes make them withdraw out of fear of failure.

Let us honor our black men and show them that we have their backs. White and Black women both should try harder to support their hard working and intelligent black men and support their decisions and their initiatives and entrepreneurial endeavors whether we agree with their professional choices or not. If black or white women want successful black husbands and fathers, turn them loose, support them and let them soar.

Just my opinion

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Surprised at the different angle this thread has taken. The OP's original post had strong undertones of that blk man superiority BS (that certain non blk members over dose on) along with praising white women by putting down blk women.

Kinda makes one ponder?????

[JMNBABE1]

in the bedroom and during very intense sexual situations, where it has a totally different meaning than in casual conversation or racially derogatory conversation. I can't remember ever using it outside the bedroom, even growing up despite being from a small mostly white town.

I really enjoyed being seen out dating black guys too, but maybe that's seen as "racist" too? It turned me on knowing other people knew by the way I was dressed and acting with my Black Lovers that I was also sexually involved with them. I loved the hateful glares as much as the jealous looks from other white wives/girlfriends!! LOL

I even fell seriously in love with one Black Lover, to the extent that we discussed ending our marriages to be together permanently....but on the end decided that destroying two families for our desires wasn't the way to go. So a serious relationship with a Black Lover is/was an obvious possibility for me (still happily married to white hubby). Point being, I would not eliminate someone simply because of their race. Mutual desire/attraction/life desires is what would be most important.

J (the wife)